Not sure where you're doing your homework, but it seems like you've got quite a lot of bad information.
A shaded panel wont take out a string anymore. Modern pabels don't have that problem. Watch this video for why.
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Exporting more than 3.6kw has nothing to do with single phase. It's the cutoff point where the power network has to approve the connection as opposed to just being informed. A 3.6 inverter can be installed then a G98 form sent to the DNO after installation. Over 3.6kw a G99 form has to be sent off and approval granted before it can be connected to the grid.
Although inverters can often be configured to run at 3.6kw to meet G98 requirements - so the installer could install the system, set it to run at 3.6kw then reconfigure to its full capacity once the G99 is approved.