Splitting Up with Misses

!bluetonic! said:
You can reply with.

Thinking of splitting up with you.
We can talk face to face later.
miss you too...
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Other than the fact I won't be talking to her face to face and I'm not really missing her thats spot on. Oh hang on its not - because I'm not dumping her by text!
 
You ok darlin? Love you, miss you x
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You best get this sorted soon, as its only a matter of time before the OcUK forum wheels get in full motion and someone links her to this thread.
 
I'd be inclined to have a bit of a think while you have this enforced separation by your work commitments.
Do you find it liberating being away from her or do you find yourself missing her? See how you feel after 2-3 weeks away.
Ring her and try discussing everything that you've raised here. Maybe don't explicitly say that you're on the verge of chucking it in but you could hint at it.
I don't see any problem with breaking up with someone by phone if you are a significant distance apart and you're certain it's the end. It sounds like a significant part of your relationship has taken place on the phone so it might as well end that way too.

You haven't left any valuables in the house you share though, have you?
 
AthlonTom said:
Just about to send this back:



You guys have got 5 minutes if something better is needed!
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Tell her something is wrong, she wil force the conversation and force it out of you.

KaHn
 
"Hi babes im fine, sleeping with a horse isn't as good as it sounds btw. Ah well, try everything once though right? Cya soon x"

She'll never bother you again.
 
AthlonTom said:
Clever hover!

EDIT: Sent!
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Engineering is all about problem solving :D

But if you hint that you are not happy she will want to know why and you can sit back and say i wanted to talk to you face to face and not over the phone, then she will force "the talk" out of you over the phone.

KaHn

!LATE!
 
Keep us up to date with the text conversation so we can continue to guide you through this as sensibly as possible.
 
AthlonTom said:
Other than the fact I won't be talking to her face to face and I'm not really missing her thats spot on. Oh hang on its not - because I'm not dumping her by text!
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I was nearly there..

Me and my girlfriend have been together for 3 years now. I must be doing something right. :o

Going back to a previous thread about, work, life money etc. At this current stage in my life, I have a great balance of everything.

Onto another topic.
My parents have just called and taking us out for a curry on Sunday. Result!

Meanwhile back to the thread...
 
I'm thinking:

"Im trying really hard chick, and I stil love you, I'm just really getting more and more down. I should be getting happy not stressed x"

Her reply is going to be quite probing I should imagine
 
AthlonTom said:
Harder than I thought it would be already!
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Easy just say

"I am not coping with this long distance thing, and i am not having enough time to myself, can you wait till i finish work so we can talk uninterupted"

KaHn
 
"I'm no longer happy with the relationship. I love you to bits, but it's not going to work for me, so it would be better for us both in the long run to split up. I'm sorry, but I need to be honest with you. x"

:)
 
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