Stag Do000s and unfaithfulness.

TrixiBuG said:
So "sexual contact" (to use Jeremy Kyle's terms) would be okay? Like Pretty Woman rules?

Nah...sorry, its not like way back when, when you had never done anything with your intended and your wedding night was going to be the first time

Cheating is cheating no matter if it happens when you just start a relationship, have been in one for years or if its on the Stag/Hen do - just no in my book
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sorry old timer but I've not seen Pretty Woman, or Jeremy Kyle for that matter, so you've lost me a bit there. define sexual contact, isn't that implicit in "sex"? your standard strip club stuff is pretty.. well.. standard, no?

B@
 
When I was on my stag do, I cheated on my now wife.

Whoah, what a night! She was so sweet, so sexy and just made me want more!

Woke up the next day and she was gone and I felt so alone. I felt used.

I saw her in the bar of the hotel later that morning and the sight of her made me feel ill. Spending time with her seemed like a silly thing to do in the cold light of day. More to the point she behaved as if I was a stranger as some other guy at the bar literally had his hands all over her.

Strangely, I felt only relief that it was him and not me.

It is a funny old world. My now wife does not know, and I will never tell her about it. I made a promise to myself that I would never do it again and that night will always conjure up bittersweet memories of the one night stand I had with a girl named Stella.
 
wesimmo said:
I remember having a few beers after work and a girl we work with told me and my male colleague, "I've told Dave he can have a blow job on his stag do as long as he pays for it. The thing is though, I can't decide what my limit should be, I love giving BJs but if i was drunk could i stop there? And i don't think it's fair that I want him to pay for it but i could do it to any random bloke."

I nearly fell off my chair.
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In your haste to undo your trousers?
 
BuffetSlayer said:
When I was on my stag do, I cheated on my now wife.

Whoah, what a night! She was so sweet, so sexy and just made me want more!

Woke up the next day and she was gone and I felt so alone. I felt used.

I saw her in the bar of the hotel later that morning and the sight of her made me feel ill. Spending time with her seemed like a silly thing to do in the cold light of day. More to the point she behaved as if I was a stranger as some other guy at the bar literally had his hands all over her.

Strangely, I felt only relief that it was him and not me.

It is a funny old world. My now wife does not know, and I will never tell her about it. I made a promise to myself that I would never do it again and that night will always conjure up bittersweet memories of the one night stand I had with a girl named Stella.
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Ah ... Ms Artois? She's a fickle one alright... I have a similar tale
 
We went to a strip joint for my stag doo. Sauntered back in the house at seven the next morning stinking of perfume and covered in "nipple glitter". Was a fun night but the misses was not impressed and she still reminds me of it 4 years later :)
 
BuffetSlayer said:
When I was on my stag do, I cheated on my now wife.

Whoah, what a night! She was so sweet, so sexy and just made me want more!

Woke up the next day and she was gone and I felt so alone. I felt used.

I saw her in the bar of the hotel later that morning and the sight of her made me feel ill. Spending time with her seemed like a silly thing to do in the cold light of day. More to the point she behaved as if I was a stranger as some other guy at the bar literally had his hands all over her.

Strangely, I felt only relief that it was him and not me.

It is a funny old world. My now wife does not know, and I will never tell her about it. I made a promise to myself that I would never do it again and that night will always conjure up bittersweet memories of the one night stand I had with a girl named Stella.
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Was expecting the 'ol bait and switch and this story to involve Shrek. But then I remembered Theophany isn't here :(
 
I organised my best mates stag. We didn't have anything of the sort for him. Mostly shooting at the ranges, clay pigeon, some bird place with eagles and stuff. And the rest was just going out drinking and having a good time. All in Ireland. Brilliant weekend.

It's not his thing to have ladies up in his face.

My weekend... He has sworn that he will only take me to prague. I'm a bit dubious as my current girlfriend HATES the idea of me going to prague. But, I think what happens on a stag. Stays on a stag.

Same thing for the girl. It's a last night of pure freedom in my eyes.
 
agnes said:
I organised my best mates stag. We didn't have anything of the sort for him. Mostly shooting at the ranges, clay pigeon, some bird place with eagles and stuff. And the rest was just going out drinking and having a good time. All in Ireland. Brilliant weekend.

It's not his thing to have ladies up in his face.

My weekend... He has sworn that he will only take me to prague. I'm a bit dubious as my current girlfriend HATES the idea of me going to prague. But, I think what happens on a stag. Stays on a stag.

Same thing for the girl. It's a last night of pure freedom in my eyes.
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your "current girlfriend" lol, quite the charmer you! no wonder she's concerned ;)

B@
 
It shouldn't be seen as the "last night of freedom". It's deplorable in my opinion.

My stag do was me and a dozen of my closest friends, a few drinks, a few bars, some fun activities (outdoorsy stuff), good food, and some did end up going to a strip club, but it holds no appeal to me so some of us went elsewhere.

Ultimately we had a good laugh and good fun.

For me, it was about spending time with friends and just having a laugh - which I did.

If you feel you have to misbehave with another woman then I question your morality and suitability for marriage.
 
MikeTheNative said:
During a trip to Amsterdam, me and my friends ended up in the sites of hen party while on a night out. To put it bluntly, if a man tried what they tried, they would probably be put in prison.
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Can confirm from my time working the door, hen parties are for the most part like wild animals and much worse than stag parties.
They won't think twice about walking up to you and grabbing your crotch/try to stick their hands down your trousers and generally stuff that would get a man a good kicking.
 
Freefaller said:
It shouldn't be seen as the "last night of freedom". It's deplorable in my opinion.

My stag do was me and a dozen of my closest friends, a few drinks, a few bars, some fun activities (outdoorsy stuff), good food, and some did end up going to a strip club, but it holds no appeal to me so some of us went elsewhere.

Ultimately we had a good laugh and good fun.

For me, it was about spending time with friends and just having a laugh - which I did.

If you feel you have to misbehave with another woman then I question your morality and suitability for marriage.
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I'd agree with this to be honest.
 
Freefaller said:
It shouldn't be seen as the "last night of freedom". It's deplorable in my opinion.

My stag do was me and a dozen of my closest friends, a few drinks, a few bars, some fun activities (outdoorsy stuff), good food, and some did end up going to a strip club, but it holds no appeal to me so some of us went elsewhere.

Ultimately we had a good laugh and good fun.

For me, it was about spending time with friends and just having a laugh - which I did.

If you feel you have to misbehave with another woman then I question your morality and suitability for marriage.
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Me too, I can't stand the thought of a strip club, waste of money. I went to one once. Got kicked out as I simply didn't want to pay money other than for my drink...
 
Last few I've been on, including mine, in the last 2 years and I was surprised by the others rather than stag! On mine I didn't have a lap dance that I paid for, but my best mates arranged for me to go up on stage with 2 women for a "show" which ended in slapping my arse with a belt and pouring hot wax down my boxers. Oh, I forgot to mention the fact that I was up on stage with MY DAD.

I just don't see the point, personally. Was one of the nicest strip clubs I've been to, where you could sit and drink and you weren't constantly hassled and the women were really nice looking, but I don't pay. I have a rule.

Didn't stop some of my mates with wives disappearing in to other rooms with ladies though and no idea what went on and that but I just don't get it. It's exploiting men, not the other way round! Sod that. Rather be in a pub/bar chatting with mates.
 
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