Stag Do000s and unfaithfulness.

On my stag night I was teetotal so I was made to drink and it didn't take much to get me drunk.
There was a hen night in the same nightclub and I remember my mates putting a blindfold on me and the girls put one on the hen and then pushed us together and of course we snogged.
They lifted the blindfolds put them back down and pushed us together again and I went along with it again.
During the snog they lifted my blindfold and I was snogging one of my gay mates :D
At the end of the night I was stripped and tied to a lamppost but I was so drunk I didn't care.
 
Dimple said:
On my stag night I was teetotal so I was made to drink and it didn't take much to get me drunk.
There was a hen night in the same nightclub and I remember my mates putting a blindfold on me and the girls put one on the hen and then pushed us together and of course we snogged.
They lifted the blindfolds put them back down and pushed us together again and I went along with it again.
During the snog they lifted my blindfold and I was snogging one of my gay mates :D
At the end of the night I was stripped and tied to a lamppost but I was so drunk I didn't care.
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woah mate careful, the low morals police are watching
 
My husband went to a strip club for part of his stag do and had a lap dance. He's also been to other stag dos were he's had dances also. Doesn't bother me.
I had a stripper at mine. Doesn't bother my husband.

However we have friends whose wives don't know about the strippers and wouldn't approve.

That's as far as it went and IMO as far as it should go on a hen and stag do.

(For what it is worth, we have also been to a strip club together on a couple of occasion)
 
All the ones ive been on were strip bars and dancers only...however on one a few lads went to a brothel (including the groom) ...not sure if anything else happened whilst getting dances either
 
Dj_Jestar said:
I suspect he means those who are clearly overcompensating. The ones that vehemently condemn anyone who cheats with indignation and gratuitous passion. Kind of like the preachers who keep a stash of gay porn and coke at home whilst proclaiming to their congregation that homosexuals and drug addicts go to a special kind of hell.
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It's called reaction formation I believe - it's a way of dealing with the shame.
 
dirtychinchilla said:
Having said that, some women (read wives and girlfriends) seem to think it's OK to touch men's bodies...but if you touch a woman's, then you'll be in some serious trouble!
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Yeah this.

Man talks dirty to a woman = sexual harassment.
Woman talks dirty to a man = £1.50 a minute.

On topic, our stag went to a strip bar and the best man hired a private booth as a prank for the groom. 10 of us guys and 2 strippers. It unfolded into a dominatrix show, at the groom's expense. Not that pr0n does much for me, but I was glad that the groom ended the show on principle. All of the other stag guys were howling with laugher lol.
 
Is going to a strip club cheating? No.

Is it a bit dubious going to a strip club when you are in a relationship? A little.

Are the usual rules relaxed a bit on the basis that it's your stag do? Definitely.

I've no problem going to a strip club on a stag. It's supposed to be a night of mischief. If you feel a bit iffy at the thought of a strip club, then don't go. It's just one dozens of things you could do. If that's the sole activity, then it would be a bit pants!
 
Cheating is cheating regardless of when it is. A stripper is fine but kissing or significant touching isn't in my view. It becomes a bit blurred once drunken mates arrange for other girls or strippers to go a bit further and it's hard for the stag to say no in that atmosphere. But if it's an action that their partner would feel uncomfortable with then it has gone too far.

The same applies for hen nights too although I get the impression there are some double standards with girls being angry at certain partners actions but not the other way around.
 
I have 2 friends who got married in June last year, they are already separated because a few months after the wedding, it came out that she had slept with someone else on her hen weekend. He found out and they split up.
 
elmarko said:
It's called reaction formation I believe - it's a way of dealing with the shame.
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Ahhhh, that would explain some of hurfderps posts then :p

Back to the OP - I don't think a stag do is an excuse to cheat. I think doing so is very disrespectful to your partner. Not only that but if it is with a random, or a stripper or someone in a brothel - you dont know what you may be taking home to your future wife / husband.
 
whats the point of getting married if you are just going to cheat?!

There is no sense in people nowadays, JUST DON'T GET FREAKING MARRIED FS.

You want to play the field? cool go for it homie, marriage is an old tradition and should be buried anyway.

But there is no point if you say yeah i'm going to commit to you my love! then bury your nose in the snatch of a stripper? on "your last night of freedom". If you do that your marriage is dead anyway so you should quit now... and if woman do it don't think she DEFINITELY won't do it again, it comes down to a level of respect you have for the other person.

But the whole concept of monogamy is doomed to failure anyway, that however is another huge topic entirely.

TL:DR marriage is a waste of time.

Come on....
 
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