Suicide and WoW

Megahurtz400 · 28 Jul 2008 at 02:28

cheets64 said:
Life is what you make of it, seems he wanted to live a crap life, you can either put up with it or try and move on.

And tried to kill himself, if I was going to commit suicide I would succeed first time none of this half arsein about, it was either a cry for help but if he needs help there is only one person that can help him and that is himself.

Q F T, Harsh truth, but lifei is harsh

Tefal · 28 Jul 2008 at 02:28

Janesy B said:
But the thing is he's tried to take his own life because of one game, there's a million and one things he could have done to keep him from the madness of the world. If the one game that you loved was taken away, would you be a bit upset or would you kill yourself?

it's not so much the game it's the people he got to know through it, imagine being forced to move away from all you're friends etc.

Nebzor · 28 Jul 2008 at 02:29

I find it comical the way they are trying to make the guild feel bad for 'taking away the stability in his life'. Pathetic if you ask me. It may well have been the last piece of stability he had, but that doesn't mean 30 or so other people should be his personal counselors and keep him in the guild for fear of suicide? :rolleyes:

Janesy B · 28 Jul 2008 at 02:37

Tefal said:
it's not so much the game it's the people he got to know through it, imagine being forced to move away from all you're friends etc.

If i was forced away from my friends i'd either stay in touch by the many means out there or make new ones. Nature has a way of weeding out the weak, i'm sure one day the fact that i'm chubby and lazy will be my downfall, until then i will enjoy my life.

Tefal · 28 Jul 2008 at 02:39

Janesy B said:
If i was forced away from my friends i'd either stay in touch by the many means out there or make new ones. Nature has a way of weeding out the weak, i'm sure one day the fact that i'm chubby and lazy will be my downfall, until then i will enjoy my life.

If he does have anxiety disorder then making new friends is going to be very difficult.

Glaucus · 28 Jul 2008 at 02:41

Tefal said:
If he does have anxiety disorder then making new friends is going to be very difficult.

So you think he shouldn't of been banned?

It's absolutely stupid they are trying to blame the clan. They obviously knew he had problems and they should have got him help. They only have themselves and him to blame. No one else.

Tefal · 28 Jul 2008 at 02:46

AcidHell2 said:
So you think he shouldn't of been banned?

It's absolutely stupid they are trying to blame the clan. They obviously knew he had problems and they should have got him help. They only have themselves and him to blame. No one else.

no If he did something ban worthy then yeah he should have been banned.

Personally i think he's an idiot for failing to commit suicide (if he actually did intend to die)

There's no blame on his clan mates or anyone else hands.

All I'm saying is I can understand why he might do it, and it's not "he killed himself over a game what a loser". Unless of course he didn't have a disorder then it is.

It's absolutely stupid they are trying to blame the clan. They obviously knew he had problems and they should have got him help. They only have themselves and him to blame. No one else.

Wait what? Who are "they" are they the clan people or someone else?

Lydzor · 28 Jul 2008 at 02:47

I've had Social Anxiety pretty severely along with other mental illnesses, I can honestly see where he could be coming from, I guess when it's just the one thing that gives you something normal in life (as normal as it can be

) then when you lose that you feel like you have nothing.

All of this doesn't exclude the fact that he may well have just been an idiot.

Janesy B · 28 Jul 2008 at 02:47

Tefal said:
If he does have anxiety disorder then making new friends is going to be very difficult.

He managed to make friends on the guild so he can manage again. After having a mental condition myself, the key is to be persistent and do something about it rather than hide behind it, i was and still can be very shy to the point where i will avoid social interaction, sometimes you have to fight with yourself to make yourself better.

cheets64 · 28 Jul 2008 at 02:48

Tefal said:
If he does have anxiety disorder then making new friends is going to be very difficult.

But people will only be friends with you if they like you, you need to change if you don't like it and change the way you look if need be.

Some internet/wow geeks are all the same, they have a very vivid view on things but lack the most basic skills of having a good time and meeting people.

Crying and moaning is not going to get you any where in life.

I don't understand how he was ok in school but in uni he couldn't make friends. I had to make new friends at college and my best mate is one of them.

neoboy · 28 Jul 2008 at 02:48

Can't imagine he had that bad of a anxiety disorder he did have a bird after all

Glaucus · 28 Jul 2008 at 02:48

Tefal said:
Wait what? Who are "they" are they the clan people or someone else?

Who ever posted that he tried to kill himself. Girlfriend?

Tefal · 28 Jul 2008 at 02:51

Janesy B said:
He managed to make friends on the guild so he can manage again. After having a mental condition myself, the key is to be persistent and do something about it rather than hide behind it, i was and still can be very shy to the point where i will avoid social interaction, sometimes you have to fight with yourself to make yourself better.

I do agree and sometimes it really is a struggle to make yourself open that door and get out there, but like every fight sometimes you just get blindsided and without someone there to help you, it can be very difficult to get back up, and reclaim that ground.

Janesy B · 28 Jul 2008 at 02:56

Tefal said:
I do agree and sometimes it really is a struggle to make yourself open that door and get out there, but like every fight sometimes you just get blindsided and without someone there to help you, it can be very difficult to get back up, and reclaim that ground.

I had no one to help me out either and i don't have very supportive parents either. I used my job to make new friends and some of my best friends are people who i have worked with. Although i don't have a great amount of people who i would call real friends, i'm always able to get someone to come to the pub with me

the easy option would be to hide behind something but i took the hard option and now i'm readjusted and suitable for human consumption

Energize · 28 Jul 2008 at 03:17

cheets64 said:
I don't understand how he was ok in school but in uni he couldn't make friends. I had to make new friends at college and my best mate is one of them.

Social anxiety disorder often develops in teenage years.

Cr0fty · 28 Jul 2008 at 03:21

Thread reminds me of this

Tefal · 28 Jul 2008 at 03:23

neoboy said:
Can't imagine he had that bad of a anxiety disorder he did have a bird after all

Cr0fty said:
Thread reminds me of this

thats a rip off the proper one is some guy died and a friends/relative logged into his account and posted it and they said did he drop any good loot.

Sinque · 28 Jul 2008 at 03:25

Tefal said:
thats a rip off the proper one is some guy died and a friends/relative logged into his account and posted it and they said did he drop any good loot.

Didn't they have a funeral in Winterspring aswell? Then the opposite faction went and killed everyone there

Cr0fty · 28 Jul 2008 at 03:26

Tefal said:
thats a rip off the proper one is some guy died and a friends/relative logged into his account and posted it and they said did he drop any good loot.

Ah i wasn't sure where the original was from, so this sufficed

Tefal · 28 Jul 2008 at 03:26

Sinque said:
Didn't they have a funeral in Winterspring aswell? Then the opposite faction went and killed everyone there

I though that was planetside?