Try changing tRRD_S to 12 and tFAW to 48, it should work fine. I found that auto defaults those to very aggressive subtimings which will result in errors.
I don't think you need to lower tRC that much either, 52 should be fine on those Samsung ICs. ProcODT at 53.3Ohm (default) is also fine for Samsung B-die.
(I have the same board, X370 Prime, with a Team Dark Pro kit, had the same issue until I looked at subtimings)
It seems the black screens were unrelated to the memory and actually caused by running CPU-Z.
I now have one machine running at 3200 via XMP with SOC at 1.15. However the other won't seem to reach 3200 stably even with 1.45v and SOC at 1.2 and a range of ProcODT values(boot loops and mem test failures). Currently validating the sticks at 2133 before trying to work upwards again, and might swap the ram kits between machines to see what happens.