Hello again
If your parent want you to stay and you want to stay - stay. Win win, it makes saving easier.
Take it easy, carry on saving, by the time you are 40 you have a lump sum. You can do what you like then, however you feel when you get there.
Oh absolutely agreed, generally however property is not expensive on average in Cornwall in comparison to other southern counties (especially the south east). That £50k example just goes to show that, you would barely get a garage in my village for £50k.
Re the north FACTD), i am not against it at all (beautiful place), but its no more beautiful than Oxfordshire for example, which is commutable to London, which is where all the salaries are unfortunately. Thats what keeps me firmly anchored in the south. (Plus i am a tory southern fairy, people in the north would bully me
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FoxEye - have you seen the Secret Life of Walter Mitty? If not, you should. I thought it was a pretty inspiring film
Break it down into small steps. Research on moving out and new job separately. Once you have a better understanding of both then you can start linking the two together. You shouldn't let a job dictate where you should live, but at the same time don't let your location restrict where you should find a job. Do you drive? Are you willing to commute?
Jobs - first of all, have you updated your CV? Sign up to linkedin - update your profile as if it's a CV and really sell yourself on there. Sell yourself well and you will get headhunted. Job sites - the ones I've been on are reed, indeed and totaljobs. Sign yourself up to recruitment agencies. Try and build relationships (no, not lovey dovey ones) with recruitment consultants. Having contacts and good relationship with people really does get you places.
Houses - do all your research on how much you can borrow and cost of living before you even start to look at properties. No point finding a place you really like, only to find out that you can't get the mortgage for it. Go see a mortgage advisor - it is a free service up to the point of submitting a mortgage application. They will tell you how much you can borrow and a good indication of the fees/cost involved in buying a house. There are also plenty of online tools out there to help you work this out.
Btw - I think I read somewhere that you need to have been in a permanent job for at least 6 months before you can get a mortgage. So finding a new job and buying a house at the same time won't be such a great idea unless you buy a house/get a mortgage before changing jobs.
Commutable to London is a huge negative. People return to the sticks with London all over them![]()
If I were you, FoxEye, I would apply for volunteer work somewhere far away from home, help the needy, save the whales or the cats, join the peace corps, whatever. I've read some bits and pieces of this thread and it sounds like you need to broaden your horizon.
Your current contract will expire soonish, correct? It's the perfect chance to pack your bags and go on an adventure. Commit to it and stop making excuses. You don't need 50k per year as I doubt it will make you feel better, you need a dramatic life style change.
Yup, ends in March.
Well, I have no ties, no commitments, no responsibilities; I'm a free agent. I could do this.
Look at it this way, let's say you somehow land a 50k job, then what? You've doubled your current wage but your life won't change much. As others have mentioned, you already earn enough to be living on your own.
IT Contracting means "get a job with a company doing <whatever your skillset is>, nothing more. I only mentioned this as presumably you are already skilled up for a support role.
...doing?
I went from a general IT dogsbody to a specialist area which I had no experience, within 5 years I was easily in a position to go as an independent contractor - I haven't given up my perm job yet but I have moonlighted on short 5-10 day contract projects at £500+/day during my leave periods.
OP, being brutally honest, I think you're just afraid and you're doing a cognitive dance to justify everything.
You're afraid of trying.
You're afraid of failing.
You're afraid of being alone.
How much money do you have saved already?
I've saved about... 40k in total.
Nice, thanks. What did you specialise in if you don't mind telling us?