Now I went to uni, went to a good school, but always just sort of coasted - never really pushed myself. I'm inherently lazy, easily distracted and get bored quickly - which actually led to a few people saying I should take up consultancy work instead! But I'm not interested in doing silly hours, lots of travelling (been there done that). So i accept I'm not in a position to demand a larger salary or more senior position. I'm realistic in my expectations.
I'm not bothered about earning huge amounts of money anyway, as long as I earn enough to pay the bills, and offer myself the odd treat now and again. Don't get me wrong, if I could earn a 6 figure salary and keep my work life balance as is, and so on I would jump at the chance. I'm just not aggressive enough to push myself that hard.
I don't complain that I can't afford stuff, or get envious of others, because I know that different people make different sacrifices. I don't smoke or drink, and I seldom go out on massive nights out (I go out, but for coffee, or just a leisurely catch up with friends, light lunches etc... not for big nights out). So I save myself a lot of money there. Moving away from London has helped too.
Don't get me wrong, it's tight, but not "keep me awake in the middle of the night" tight.
I probably should put more effort into achieving more, I'm just not that way inclined. I guess if I found a job I loved, I'd put in the effort and take more of a risk...
I wish I had the ambition and drive of someone like Richdog and Randomshenans, I do admire them tremendously (especially the IG posts that Random posts!) - but personally I'm not driven enough.
So I still don't understand that arbitrary figure of 50k - seems like Foxeye is doing okay for where he lives - but if he's not willing to put the effort in or take the risks that others do he should just accept where he is.