The Bro Code Dilemma

Freefaller said:
Why not wait a bit and ask him, if you're good friends he might be ok with it?
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Nah, been there, done that. My best friend at uni - as in we had been best friends for 14 years at the time of starting at the same uni - began dating a super hot Spanish girl. They broke up after a short time, then she was interested in me...

Of course I wanted to go for it. I asked him, he said it was fine, no problem. He genuinely seemed OK with the idea and that it was no issue at all.

Her and I started dating, we dated for several months, and he didn't like it at all. In fact, we haven't spoken since. All that friendship we had built up, all those shared experiences, gone over some 19 year old Spaniard. Was it worth it? Absolutely.
 
Freefaller said:
Why not wait a bit and ask him, if you're good friends he might be ok with it?
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He may say he's OK with it. But it doesn't mean he is. He may not even care about that particular girl anymore. But that's not the point. You should show absolute loyalty to your friends and this means not even needing to ask them. She is off limits because of their history. Full stop.

EDIT: Or am I so old now this is not a thing? Regardless, it's how I would act with my mates.
 
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Hades said:
He may say he's OK with it. But it doesn't mean he is. He may not even care about that particular girl anymore. But that's not the point. You should show absolute loyalty to your friends and this means not even needing to ask them. She is off limits because of their history. Full stop.

EDIT: Or am I so old now this is not a thing? Regardless, it's how I would act with my mates.
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I personally wouldn't. But this new age and modernism in friendships I have no idea if it's acceptable.

Personally I'd be more annoyed if I found out. That said if he really is a good friend you'd probably forgive one another.

I guess the old bros before hoes is still a thing these days. As it should be. I was just trying to be a bit more open minded and woke! :D I think I'll go back to being a close minded gen X for now...
 
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My advice is, get on pornhub and rethink the situation after.

You know she’s toxic yet you are prepared to sleep with her? Mate, this won’t end well. You will regret it for years. She ain’t worth it.
 
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OP has probs hung out with his mate and this bird and got the hots for her which I get, she probs naughty as hell too but at the same time **** that life. Been there, learnt the hard way. No bird is worth the drama idc how hot she is there are plenty other good looking girls out there without the complication. Its just a shag, not worth it
 
doodah said:
Those shoulders! Pretty but definitely stay away. I married one of my best friend's younger sisters, that was dangerous enough :D.
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:cry: don't forget the years of covert grooming! That was a lot of effort you put it - be proud! Hahaha

Mate, I wish I could get that definition in my back and shoulders :D
 
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