The increasing incompetence of companies

[rypt]

When more people shared a common cultural history it becomes easier to have an understanding from the other person's view.

Problem is that parts of the UK are very multi-cultural, and many of those communities prefer to keep their previous cultures.

What shared cultural history is there when you have a local community that has people form India, Pakistan, Bangladesh, UK, Russia, Ukraine, Hong Kong, China, Singapore, Poland, Romania, France, Spain, Turkey, and so on, parts of Africa, etc.

You can "maybe" have some common European culture between the UK + western EU groups, maybe common British culture between the UK and GK groups, but how do you find a common culture across all these groups?

 

[rypt]

I live in the building/area where I live not because of some sort of roots in this area, but because it's close to work, is "nice" and is something that I can afford.

One day I might change jobs, and might decide that I want to live somewhere else that's closer to that work.

I'm also renting, and one day the landlord might decide that they want to put the price and I'll have to move.
Or maybe I decide to buy a place - and therefore need to move.

Even when I buy a place... there's no guarantee that I'll live long term there in case I need to move for work for example.



Take the above story - and it probably applies to many people.

We live in a very different world now - people don't stay in a single job their whole life; people don't spend their whole life with their first girlfriend/boyfriend who they met at the age of 14; people don't go into their family's line of work.

The old/nostalgic idea of "community" simply doesn't apply in the same way to the modern world.

 

[dowie]

Doubt that will happen as half the properties are social housing. One tenant thinks it’s ok to screw up her baby’s nappies into balls using the remaining stickiness and toss on the car park. Yet she thinks I’m disgusting for reporting her. Erm SHE IS THE disgusting one!

Yikes, lol.

It can still happen if there are separate blocks but if not and the social housing people are mingled in with all the other properties in the same blocks etc.. then that's unfortunate.

Like where I live there are a couple of social housing blocks that had to be built as part of the approval for the development but they're separately managed by the housing association that owns them, for my block and the others we have our own management company for each block (an entity owned by the leaseholders) and a management company for the site as a whole (smaller, separate service charge that the housing association has to contribute towards too) and there is an appointed agent/property management company to run day to day stuff - we have a caretaker, concierge on-site in the day/security guard at night, gardeners visiting weekly etc.

It really does need to be separately managed - this of course generates headlines about "poor doors" where the social housing is in the same building (a single tower block) but has to use a different entrance (obviously the housing association doesn't want to pay for a fancy reception and other stuff). Or when there are separate blocks but the social housing people are kicking off because they have one garden/play area and aren't allowed to use the wealthier people's one that they feel entitled to simply because they can see it from their flats... or even moaning that they can't have access to the big silly swimming pool bridge spanning two buildings thingie one developer created.

 

[Haggisman]

I live in the building/area where I live not because of some sort of roots in this area, but because it's close to work, is "nice" and is something that I can afford.

One day I might change jobs, and might decide that I want to live somewhere else that's closer to that work.

I'm also renting, and one day the landlord might decide that they want to put the price and I'll have to move.
Or maybe I decide to buy a place - and therefore need to move.

Even when I buy a place... there's no guarantee that I'll live long term there in case I need to move for work for example.



Take the above story - and it probably applies to many people.

We live in a very different world now - people don't stay in a single job their whole life; people don't spend their whole life with their first girlfriend/boyfriend who they met at the age of 14; people don't go into their family's line of work.

The old/nostalgic idea of "community" simply doesn't apply in the same way to the modern world.

You've pretty much just proved his point. Just because you have no "roots" in the area, and may move away at some point, doesn't stop you from being part of the community, getting to know your neighbours and other people around.

It seems very strange to decide you don't want to get to know people just because you might not be there forever.

It seems to be a very British thing (or at least a Southern English thing), maybe something to do with being an island? Whenever I've been to various countries on the continent I've had a far warmer interactions from "strangers".

Edit: just seen your location. Says it all really. London is a vile place for any kind of human interaction, everyone seems dead inside, and look as if they want to kill you if you so much as dare to make eye contact

 

[GGizmo]

The old/nostalgic idea of "community" simply doesn't apply in the same way to the modern world.

It still does apply in religious communities, even those who are only culturally religious.

I saw this situation starting to happen in the 90s when I was at college.

At the first lunch time in the canteen along the wall was a big group of Muslim students, all chatting away, laughing and joking. I thought maybe they all had come from the same school so knew each other before. I found out later that it was there first day and nobody knew each other.

As I made that observation I looked around the canteen to find somewhere to sit. All I saw were single white people sitting alone at different tables.

I knew back then that the British* white community was on a downward spiral. We're being gutted from the inside. We probably can relate to people of other religions and cultures better than we can relate to someone who as likely lived a similar life to us.

*I typed British because white people of a foreign background recognise their similar heritage, just as British people living in Spain feel they are in a community.

If people are going to sack off religion then it needs a substitute, otherwise there is no where we belong to.

If there was a power cut that lasted a month there would be a lot of sad lonely people sitting in their homes with no one.

 

[rypt]

At the first lunch time in the canteen along the wall was a big group of Muslim students, all chatting away, laughing and joking. I thought maybe they all had come from the same school so knew each other before. I found out later that it was there first day and nobody knew each other.

It's funny - you view what happened here as a good thing.

I actually view it as a negative, as it's a sign of people not integrating into the UK society if they are only comfortable to mix within their own ethnic group.

 

[GGizmo]

It's funny - you view what happened here as a good thing.

I actually view it as a negative, as it's a sign of people not integrating into the UK society if they are only comfortable to mix within their own ethnic group.

I think because I take not integrating generally as a given. Most groups of people don't integrate.

The college I was at was in Tameside, though I come from Oldham. I've been to Oldham college too. The situation was even more stark there. Though at that college I was one of the few who could sit down with the Muslims as I had 2 Muslim friends from my school attending at the same time.

All the communities generally live parallel to each other. Interaction only generally happens in communal places were people have to interact.

I remember having a conversation with a Muslim friend at the time. He said if he talks to another Muslim he can make certain assumptions based off religion and culture. But if he's talking to a white person he can't make any assumption as he's no point of reference. He doesn't know what is their world view. So he avoids non-Muslims unless he sees in actions and words what they are like.

If we don't know someone then we have to assume the worse.

 

[rypt]

That right there is proof of why "community" is failing in the UK - multi-culturalism, that's your culprit.

 

[Haggisman]

That right there is proof of why "community" is failing in the UK - multi-culturalism, that's your culprit.

You sure it's not down to people (regardless of their culture) refusing to integrate into their community because they might not live in the same place forever?

 

[bazzabear]

That right there is proof of why "community" is failing in the UK - multi-culturalism, that's your culprit.

So, in that story, the 'white British' people were all refusing to interact with each other regardless - but it's the Muslims fault for speaking to each other?

It really is true, people see what they want to see.

 

[rypt]

There are multiple factors at play here.

However, you shouldn't hail the lack of integration of one ethnic group as a positive thing.

 

[Haggisman]

There are multiple factors at play here.

However, you shouldn't hail the lack of integration of one ethnic group as a positive thing.

I'm not sure "Londoners" count as an ethnic group...

Who in the thread has hailed it as a positive thing? Your obvious prejudice is making you seeing things which aren't even there

Do you not see the irony of complaining about people refusing to integrate, whilst yourself refusing to integrate?

Anyway, this is going way off topic!

There is always an email address for a company.
Phone them up or look on their website. I once got an email address emailing the site admin using who is.
There is always an email you just need to look for it.
The online form does it send you an email after you filled it in.

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There's nothing on the website except for the online form, I do have a couple of (automated) emails from them, I'll see if any of those actually go somewhere when I get a chance to go on the pc

 

[Haggisman]

Dart finally sent the PCNs through to me, only close to a full 7 months later.

Sum total of £5 since it was my first crossing (and following this debacle, certainly the last! ).

No idea why they couldn't just use the £5 I originally paid them 2 days after crossing, god knows how many hours of people's time wasted because nobody has the capacity to actually use their brain, and instead just blindly follow "the process" because "computer says no"

 

[Haggisman]

Some more gems from the last couple of weeks.

Ordered a dog bed, realised I needed something else from the site, so immediately cancelled, then placed a new order with the additional item.

Have now received shipping notification for both orders

Don't offer cancellation if you're not going to cancel!

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Ordered a few house plants last Monday (16th), including one which was supposed to be a Christmas present for my mum, no updates until I messaged them chasing it yesterday, at which point it coincidentally changed to "shipped".

Checked the tracking this morning and my parcel is currently at the Yodel depot, due for delivery Monday 30th, so I'm not holding out much hope for anything other than a box full of soil and dead leaves.

Luckily managed to pick up a replacement from the local garden centre (at several multiples the price)

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Finally, ordered a £50 plant pot, which turned up with a single layer of bubble wrap around it... Or rather, around the many pieces it arrived in.

Contacted the seller who said they'd send out another one, with extra packaging - to their credit they did so straight away and it arrived the next day...

...in exactly the same packaging and unsurprisingly in exactly the same condition.

Seems like just nobody gives a **** anymore

 

[randal]

Amazon shipped a tin of contact adhesive in an envelope.

Unsurprisingly the tin opened mid shipping and went everywhere.

Fun one trying to get a refund through the automated system on that. "Are you sure you want me to send an open container of contact adhesive back through the post at your expense?"

Every option ended with sending it back, and they wouldn't issue a repair or a replacement without getting their wad of glue and cardboard back.

Some problems can't be solved with automated journeys and AI chat bots.

 

[Haggisman]

Amazon shipped a tin of contact adhesive in an envelope.

Unsurprisingly the tin opened mid shipping and went everywhere.

Fun one trying to get a refund through the automated system on that. "Are you sure you want me to send an open container of contact adhesive back through the post at your expense?"

Every option ended with sending it back, and they wouldn't issue a repair or a replacement without getting their wad of glue and cardboard back.

Some problems can't be solved with automated journeys and AI chat bots.

It's mad isn't it?

"Thought shalt follow the script!”

I assume you sent their mess back to them as requested in the end? At least with Amazon there's a pretty good chance of getting a refund eventually.

I've since found that this plant website has 2 separate trustpilot pages, and while the initial one I found was reasonable at 4.2 stars, the other one makes for painful reading, at only 1.2! Seems they have form for providing half dead plants and insisting they're fine and that the customer puts in the work to revive them, and refusing refunds...

I've dusted off my well used copy of the Consumer Contracts Regulations in anticipation of them arriving the state I expect after spending a week in a warehouse with the usual Yodel treatment

 

[arknor]

I remember having a conversation with a Muslim friend at the time. He said if he talks to another Muslim he can make certain assumptions based off religion and culture. But if he's talking to a white person he can't make any assumption as he's no point of reference. He doesn't know what is their world view. So he avoids non-Muslims unless he sees in actions and words what they are like.

That just sounds bizarre.

Religion really rules their life and stops them integrating.


Every Muslim can't hold the same views, and if you lived in the UK all or most of your life you would see our culture probably isn't a whole lot different.

Apart from white kids will have more freedom... is it really the parents discouraging them from hanging around with natives.


How often do people really talk about religion and culture in small talk... surely most young people are watching the same stuff on youtube , the same movies etc

 

[Haggisman]

Well, I received a notification from Yodel earlier that it's scheduled for delivery tonight between 8-10pm!

We shall see if it materialises, or if there turns out to be nobody home.

Fair play if they do actually deliver that late on Christmas eve, might have to find a box of chocolates or something for the driver!

 

[MissChief]

That just sounds bizarre.

Religion really rules their life and stops them integrating.


Every Muslim can't hold the same views, and if you lived in the UK all or most of your life you would see our culture probably isn't a whole lot different.

Apart from white kids will have more freedom... is it really the parents discouraging them from hanging around with natives.


How often do people really talk about religion and culture in small talk... surely most young people are watching the same stuff on youtube , the same movies etc

I suspect there's an element of 'what if they're racist?' so it's much easier to just not engage rather than do so and have the possibility. When the popularity of UKIP and Reform these days I'm not surprised they choose to avoid the potential situation entirely.

 

[Rroff]

surely most young people are watching the same stuff on youtube , the same movies etc

Depends, for some religions or those brought up (less so these days) by people with backwards traditional views their kids may be discouraged from watching quite a bit of stuff. The relatives of a relative had quite odd semi-religious views and would sanitise even children's stories and were very controlling over their kids - with the long term consequences that one has turned their back on their family and one of the others has grown up very odd.