The OCUK anonymous confession thread!

feelintherage · 2 Jun 2007 at 19:04

http://grouphug.us/confessions/670201741

look guys i found him

Indy500 · 2 Jun 2007 at 19:05

feelintherage said:
http://grouphug.us/confessions/670201741

look guys i found him

No worrying about the baby being likely to have problems... :eek:

Darkwave · 2 Jun 2007 at 19:10

feelintherage said:
http://grouphug.us/confessions/670201741

look guys i found him

The best one I ever read on there was a guy who said that he'd been up all night drinking and taking cocaine, then he goes on to add that it was 7am and he had work in an hour.

Not funny in itself, but the tone of his message and his wording were hilarious.

feelintherage · 2 Jun 2007 at 19:12

there are tons here that are just made up but i still have a chuckle

edit

http://grouphug.us/confessions/170950159

just found this

knip · 2 Jun 2007 at 19:30

Have you done something wrong if you dont feel bad about it?

neo202020 · 2 Jun 2007 at 19:31

knip said:
Have you done something wrong if you dont feel bad about it?

Two things. You've done something wrong and then not felt bad about it

Btw, did you go to Clifton College?

Indy500 · 2 Jun 2007 at 19:31

knip said:
Have you done something wrong if you dont feel bad about it?

Maybe. But right and wrong are subjective concepts anyway.

knip · 2 Jun 2007 at 19:33

neo202020 said:
Two things. You've done something wrong and then not felt bad about it Btw, did you go to Clifton College?

Yes and no I went to school in Nailsea and then St Bedes. But then I left school 11 years ago.

knip · 2 Jun 2007 at 19:34

sr4470 said:
Maybe. But right and wrong are subjective concepts anyway.

Yup your right there, when does it become "wrong" if the people involved dont see it that way.

Indy500 · 2 Jun 2007 at 19:37

knip said:
Yup your right there, when does it become "wrong" if the people involved dont see it that way.

Something obvious like rape\murder I guess.

knip · 2 Jun 2007 at 19:39

sr4470 said:
Something obvious like rape\murder I guess.

Yes now that would be wrong. I was thinking more between two people where the rest of the world and society might consider it "wrong" yet the persons involved dont.

neo202020 · 2 Jun 2007 at 19:42

knip said:
Yes now that would be wrong. I was thinking more between two people where the rest of the world and society might consider it "wrong" yet the persons involved dont.

Well, interestingly, murder sometimes fits this description (assisted suicide with consent from all parties but illegal in the country).

knip · 2 Jun 2007 at 19:46

neo202020 said:
Well, interestingly, murder sometimes fits this description (assisted suicide with consent from all parties but illegal in the country).

Now this really is getting complicated.
Ok how about i rephrase it, I may or may not have done something that most people would consider "wrong" and "immoral" but I dont feel bad about it. Does that mean its ultimately wrong?
(and no I havent broken any laws in this country)

Indy500 · 2 Jun 2007 at 19:51

knip said:
(and no I havent broken any laws in this country)

Ok, I can rule out the thing I was about to post then.

Edit: If you want to discuss it privately with me on msn, feel free to. It can't be that bad if it doesnt break any laws (we have too many laws as it is)...

Vanilla · 2 Jun 2007 at 19:54

Flat "mate" has been ****ing me off recently so last night when he was out I went and disabled the internet adapter on his computer.

He doesn't know much about computers so no Internet for him for a while.

I'm leaving in a few days and I do not plan on telling him what the problem is.

neo202020 · 2 Jun 2007 at 19:55

knip said:
Now this really is getting complicated.
Ok how about i rephrase it, I may or may not have done something that most people would consider "wrong" and "immoral" but I dont feel bad about it. Does that mean its ultimately wrong?
(and no I havent broken any laws in this country)

It's hard to say on the basis of theoretical discussion...I suspect most people would answer on the basis of their attitude towards the specific thing you're talking about rather than a general principle.

My view on it is that people should be free to do whatever they like provided they don't harm others or themselves.

knip · 2 Jun 2007 at 20:01

neo202020 said:
My view on it is that people should be free to do whatever they like provided they don't harm others or themselves.

I agree, but then what constitutes harm. As in if the thing that had happened wouldnt harm another person in the literal sense of the word, but it might upset them is it wrong?

Indy500 · 2 Jun 2007 at 20:03

knip said:
I agree, but then what constitutes harm. As in if the thing that had happened wouldnt harm another person in the literal sense of the word, but it might upset them is it wrong?

Ah, I think I know what you mean now... :eek:

neo202020 · 2 Jun 2007 at 20:03

knip said:
I agree, but then what constitutes harm. As in if the thing that had happened wouldnt harm another person in the literal sense of the word, but it might upset them is it wrong?

Again, it depends entirely on the situation. In many cases it's right to tell someone something that would upset them, for example.

knip · 2 Jun 2007 at 20:05

neo202020 said:
Again, it depends entirely on the situation. In many cases it's right to tell someone something that would upset them, for example.

I dont know the person involved so technically they dont know I'M (what might be seen as) hurting them.