The OCUK anonymous confession thread!

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I've had 3 people in close family die, but at the time, and now, I just don't feel anything about it. I feel like I should feel sad, as I'd known them all my life, but especially at one when I was old enouh for my parents to take me to the funeral and when everyone else was crying, I just couldn't feel anything. I acted like I was really upset because I didn't want anyone to know that I felt like that. I feel really guilty but I still can't feel anything about it.
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My mum died in 2002 and we were'nt on the best of terms when she died infact i remember her phoning my house from the hospital and making small talk just to talk to me which i wasnt interested in. She said i love you or something like that to which i replied yeah right bye....

A few weeks later she died, i hadnt visited and i hadnt seen her for 6 or so weeks before. i dont really remember much of her anymore just words random images (im 23 nearly). She wasnt well for the 6 years or so before she died and i treated her horribly.

My biggest regrets being that i didnt visit her, 2 weeks before she died my best friend said that you should always make time for your family to which i scoffed at, i regret not saying goodbye not saying that i loved her and that it was ok, that i knew all trouble over the years wasnt her fault. also that i couldnt feel anything for her when she died like others before i felt numb and angry very angry like i didnt care. it took a while but now the feelings are here

and im so very sorry mum
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My mum died in 2002 and we were'nt on the best of terms when she died infact i remember her phoning my house from the hospital and making small talk just to talk to me which i wasnt interested in. She said i love you or something like that to which i replied yeah right bye....

A few weeks later she died, i hadnt visited and i hadnt seen her for 6 or so weeks before. i dont really remember much of her anymore just words random images (im 23 nearly). She wasnt well for the 6 years or so before she died and i treated her horribly.

My biggest regrets being that i didnt visit her, 2 weeks before she died my best friend said that you should always make time for your family to which i scoffed at, i regret not saying goodbye not saying that i loved her and that it was ok, that i knew all trouble over the years wasnt her fault. also that i couldnt feel anything for her when she died like others before i felt numb and angry very angry like i didnt care. it took a while but now the feelings are here

and im so very sorry mum
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It's very sad.:(

It also makes me very angry. What a worm.:mad:
 
Around 2 years ago I was at work and my manager was out on business for the morning. I was bored and decided to fool around on the managers computer as it was faster than mine and as he was the manager did not have his internet web usage logged by the It adminstrator as did everyone else. Anyhow I messed around for a short while and "came across" his web history on his computer and discovered he had been browsing various porn / fetish sites (nothing illegal I hasten to add) during the working day for a few weeks.

I was shocked and typed up an anonymous letter and when the internal mail girl came round to collect my mail I distracted her and placed this letter in the Managing Directors pile of letters/memos.

When the manager came back in the afternoon within 15 minutes he was summoned to the MD`s office and sacked. The manager then came into our office in a temper and started being agressive and abusive to one of my co-workers who he accused of "grassing him up" to the MD. Of course my colleague denied this so the manager grabbed him by the throat and threw him against a wall and left!

To this day I have never confessed to this and am sorry.
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When the manager came back in the afternoon within 15 minutes he was summoned to the MD`s office and sacked. The manager then came into our office in a temper and started being agressive and abusive to one of my co-workers who he accused of "grassing him up" to the MD. Of course my colleague denied this so the manager grabbed him by the throat and threw him against a wall and left!
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Pwned. Pity about the colleague tho' :)
 
Majago said:
To be honest it sounds like he already feels really bad about it so there's no need for us to rub it in / make him feel any worse :)
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Agreed, we all do things we regret but this guy has no way to make up for his mistake which must be a horrible feeling as it is.
 
I've recently found out my ISP hasn't been taking payments from my parents debit card. (with their consent of course)

I only found this out because when looking to upgrade our account with the ISP to a faster speed when it notified me that we don't
have our debit/credit card details in. Well that's because we did direct debit over the phone rather than the internet I remembered,
and so I proceeded to check out the invoices section to further investigate and I was greeted with a total of around £300 outstanding.

Whilst we are somewhat responsible for this mishap, my parents have had absolutely no contact from our ISP to pay this bill. It's as if
they have completely forgotten about us. We've been getting free internet for around 16 months.

Is it their fault for not notifying us that our direct debits were consistently failing for 16 months allowing a bill of £300 to accumulate?,
or is it ours for not notifying them in the event that maybe my parents changed bank or the card expired and didn't notify them?.

I'm really not sure what I should do.

I really don't want this to catch up on us, but at the same time, neither I nor my parents can afford to pay this.
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