The OcUK Relationship Counselling and Hugs Thread

Minibiker said:
Feels so crap, I think if the kids were older or if we didn't have them then I'd be gone, 13 years we've been together, feels a lot longer and the way it's gone I don't think I'll handle another 13
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Sorry to hear this mate, it's never easy... I don't have kids of my own but my ex had three, that hurt me as much/more (than losing her) when we split.
But her and her ex husband were on good (or at least civil) terms... From my perspective it seemed healthier to just deal with it, if it's gone to that point - They're gonna pick up on it either way and being in a house with two people that are slowly starting to resent each other will make it worse for all of you (from the perspective of an outsider...)

I'd say you need to figure it out sooner rather than later, if there's anything left to save (and instagate the conversation)... it'll be rough, but if it isn't going to work then that'll be the best thing for you both, but more importantly, the kids.
 
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