Man of Honour
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There are lots of variables such as the snare drum, the mixing desk & definitely who is playing it.
What you're doing is correct so don't worry where the trim ends up and a little bit of clipping shouldn't hurt.
Messing with the tone will effect the clipping, turn the bass up and watch it go mental.
I can't help you with the sound, that is down to your ears but I would put all the pots to 0 and then hit the snare & experiment.
This is a picture of the mixer settings for live use but I'd be 100% confident that I would get an excellent sound if they were going into a recorder.
This is also a Behringer desk.