The Rise of Lonely Single Straight Men

I am married with a child and am happy ... but equally I was happy single and alone. there are pluses and minuses to both. I will definitely say life is a lot less complicated when you only have to look after yourself with no other considerations.
as for female company...... when I was single I had just about enough success on POF.com (and plenty of mates both male and female) but I will say.... despite never doing it before IF I ended up single again. I don't think I could be bothered with the dating game again.... I hear the local massage place scratches an itch for those who need it ;)
 
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bigmike20vt said:
I am married with a child and am happy ... but equally I was happy single and alone. there are pluses and minuses to both. I will definitely say life is a lot less complicated when you only have to look after yourself with no other considerations.
as for female company...... when I was single I had just about enough success on POF.com (and plenty of mates both male and female) but I will say.... despite never doing it before IF I ended up single again. I don't think I could be bothered with the dating game again.... I hear the local massage place scratches an itch for those who need it ;)
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Id agree.
You get bigger ups and downs in a relationship.
But if you're content alone, genuinely, it's a lot flatter.

What you do have on your own is more freedom. You just need to make sure you have enough drive to use it.
 
Wow it was late at night I was plugging away editing a corporate shoot of photos and got bored so whicpped the watch out and macro lens and could swear I was posting in the what watch thread :cry:

I am engaged for the record :p
 
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malachi said:
Exactly, just don't get hooked on the first women who touches your pee-pee :D
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First girl who touched my pee-pee so to speak was only 15. I was only a 17 year old juvenile myself. I was a virgin more into Mario Kart on the SNES than girls. She seduced me but when it came down to it I wanted nothing to do with her. I knew it was wrong.

This was way back in 1993, she was friends with my 15 year old cousin that’s how we met. They were both into amphetamines and I was drug and alcohol free, I still look back and realize I made the right decision to back out before things went too far.

At 17 I was only a child myself, the age gap didn’t seem so large so I didn’t really consider her a child.
 
nlel1975 said:
First girl who touched my pee-pee so to speak was only 15. I was only a 17 year old juvenile myself. I was a virgin more into Mario Kart on the SNES than girls. She seduced me but when it came down to it I wanted nothing to do with her. I knew it was wrong.

This was way back in 1993, she was friends with my 15 year old cousin that’s how we met. They were both into amphetamines and I was drug and alcohol free, I still look back and realize I made the right decision to back out before things went too far.

At 17 I was only a child myself, the age gap didn’t seem so large so I didn’t really consider her a child.
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Very commendable Reverend.... :)
 
nlel1975 said:
First girl who touched my pee-pee so to speak was only 15. I was only a 17 year old juvenile myself. I was a virgin more into Mario Kart on the SNES than girls. She seduced me but when it came down to it I wanted nothing to do with her. I knew it was wrong.

This was way back in 1993, she was friends with my 15 year old cousin that’s how we met. They were both into amphetamines and I was drug and alcohol free, I still look back and realize I made the right decision to back out before things went too far.

At 17 I was only a child myself, the age gap didn’t seem so large so I didn’t really consider her a child.
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You should have let her have her wicked way with you
 
nlel1975 said:
First girl who touched my pee-pee so to speak was only 15. I was only a 17 year old juvenile myself. I was a virgin more into Mario Kart on the SNES than girls. She seduced me but when it came down to it I wanted nothing to do with her. I knew it was wrong.
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Innocent times of the past.

These days you'd have both been bombarded with graphic sex education at school. Also with porn freely available that brings all the expectations, insecurities, and inadequacies that come with it.

I feel sorry for the young kids today. They have to swim against the grain to have a normal life.

I thought I'd add this link to any guy scrolling through the thread;

Papyrus UK Suicide Prevention | Prevention of Young Suicide

PAPYRUS UK is a charity for the prevention of young suicide (under 35) in the UK | Call PAPYRUS HOPELINE247 on 0800 068 4141 Now
www.papyrus-uk.org www.papyrus-uk.org
 
BowdonUK said:
Innocent times of the past.

These days you'd have both been bombarded with graphic sex education at school. Also with porn freely available that brings all the expectations, insecurities, and inadequacies that come with it.

I feel sorry for the young kids today. They have to swim against the grain to have a normal life.

I thought I'd add this link to any guy scrolling through the thread;

Papyrus UK Suicide Prevention | Prevention of Young Suicide

PAPYRUS UK is a charity for the prevention of young suicide (under 35) in the UK | Call PAPYRUS HOPELINE247 on 0800 068 4141 Now
www.papyrus-uk.org www.papyrus-uk.org
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Looks like that “graphic sex education” is working though…

 
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