Can you imagine being those people when the penny drops. One moment you are sitting home, then a few weeks later you are being told to run through a cold muddy field towards a hail of gun and artillery fire wondering how your kids are going to manage without a father.
In a similar vein the situation for many in Ukraine - one moment they are sitting at home the next they are facing potential futures of seeing their living standards and rights, etc. rolled back under Russia - potentially even persecution or death, or having to evacuate in a hurry with what possessions they can for an unknown future, potentially seeing their home turned into a grey wasteland of ruin and/or fighting on the frontline against Russia.
The likes of certain posters here do a lot of hang wringing about the humanity side of it but don't and won't look at the bigger picture and the real realities of the human cost instead of their pretend version of what Putin/Russia is like.