Soldato
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I hope this is resolved as soon as possible as this is must be a horrible existence for her.
Unmarried living together split after 18 years sorting finances
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This is ongoing she is on her 3rd solicitor, 10s of k spent, I have told her this is a 3 to 6 month job not 4 years.. I have told her to tell the solicitor to do the paperwork to force the sale of the two joint owned properties! The paperwork for that should have gone to court 4 years ago!
I think the solicitors have totally missed the point and because she does not have a clue has just let them lead..
I think the solicitors have totally missed the point and because she does not have a clue has just let them lead..
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No advice, but my family + extended family have had an inheritance battle going on 4 years too. Its ridiculous
Not really made up stuff. She probably read them in a lewd book sometime.
If four solicitors couldn't help her then she doesn't have a case. Only the OP still believes her, the last white knight.
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There is a famous case in the US (well famous in solicitors circles). It was an estate of something like $100M, which has been going on for decades.
It sounds like the estate is now down to the low $10Ms range and now all parties are fighting for the scraps.
From what he said the lowest share someone would have received is now more than the total amount remaining.
It sounds like the estate is now down to the low $10Ms range and now all parties are fighting for the scraps.
From what he said the lowest share someone would have received is now more than the total amount remaining.
This is text book coercive control and financial domestic abuse. With the new laws that’s have come on the police will be very familiar with this.
Whilst I agree about white knights, your immediate assumption it’s nonsense when this kind of thing does happen frequently shows your probably hate women and jump to assume they are lying is a bit concerning. You are the other extreme to the pathetic white knights out there
So he’s mentally ill.
What have the police said about domestic abuse? Easy way to get him removed from the house is a order or non molestation order.
I would suspect that if this has dragged on for 4 years and 3 sets of solicitors - then there is WAY more to this than you know. You may think you know what's happening but I suspect you have no clue.....
My feeling is we are hearing one side of a story and it could be a very tall one
I wonder if hes been helping her financially.
This is someone he's actually met in real life right? and has confirmed what they claim is actually true?
Next we will find out the OP paid for all her solicitors.... he met her on a dating app and only ever communicated over the internet.
don't worry she will pay you back when she eventually wins, might take another dozen or so solicitors though, when that happens you will score bigger than if you were contacted via a Nigerian prince
Please let it be a scam, Imagine being played for 5 years
Netflix will buy your story 100%
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So what's the actual reasoning behind the solicitor changes? There's definitely something she's not telling you here. Does she genuinely have a case, or is that the reason for the solicitor changes? - one runs out of steam and finds nothing tangible to go to court with, so she fires them and moves onto the next one.
Also you mentioned earlier in the thread that she only gets £400 a month, how is she funding tens of thousands in solicitor fees?
Sounds rough!
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My ******** radar is going off the charts.
It does all seem very strange but then there's nowt so queer as folk.
I think that's maybe part of the issue here too, if the facts are as you say then presumably she is entitled to a share of the two jointly owned properties (if not more of one of them if she paid the deposit). But is she maybe a bit scatty/mental too, obviously this dog food eating/likes to be pegged guy is but she was apparently with him for a couple of decades too and this part of the OP seems absolutely [redacted].
Like why was she ever agreeing to that before things turned bad? How can he just "take" all the money from her rented house? That's in her name right and she's the landlady so ultimately the contracts to let it out to tenants or via a letting agent need to go via her.
She inherited 200k, dunno the exact details of what's the solicitors are doing
I think the solicitors concentrated on a settlement for the whole situation including cash for all the rent he took for decades rather than treating it as several issues and going straight for forcing sale of the houses..
The guy refuses to pay a solicitor, he is abusive to the solicitors when they call him, his parents died which he used as a reason to delay stuff, he had a hip replacment that delayed it more, and then he crashed his bike and was in hospital that delayed stuff..
She let him, she only left him and stated this because we told her it was not a normal situation (no sex for a decade seperate rooms, she pays for eveything and gets no rent money from 3 houses, she did all the house work and cooking, she was not even permitted to use the house phone) .. She is not right in some way to allow this to happen.
As much as she is not right he is not right wither she showed us his journals where he logged everything she did, letters he sent to her solicitor there he wanted to sue her for neglect as she was not cooking for him any more.. And not cleaning the house..
She moved out a few years back.. Police were not involved he never hit her or threatened her.. It was a case of gaslighting I don't really understand how it can happen but it's a thing..
