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!Without sounding crude, it seems to me a case of "Once you pop you can't stop."
At least a lot of girls at uni slept around like crazy after their first time.
I can understand wanting to preserve your virginity until you find someone special, but not holding it back until after marriage. Sex and love are entirely different things and should not be placed in the same bracket. Pressure is entirely natural, after all at a young age sex is almost an alpha-male benchmark.
However, I can't imagine it is particularly pleasant for a woman to go out, get ****** and then be exploited in to loosing her virginity.
At least a lot of girls at uni slept around like crazy after their first time.
I can understand wanting to preserve your virginity until you find someone special, but not holding it back until after marriage. Sex and love are entirely different things and should not be placed in the same bracket. Pressure is entirely natural, after all at a young age sex is almost an alpha-male benchmark.
However, I can't imagine it is particularly pleasant for a woman to go out, get ****** and then be exploited in to loosing her virginity.
I am going to have to disagree with you there. For you they may be entirely different things but this is not the case for everyone. For quite a few people they are quite closely linked. One of the issues with Sex Education in this country would be the complete lack of focus on the emotional impact of sex as well as the physical.
Personally I think the important thing is to make up your own mind about what you feel about sex and not feel any undue pressure to lose your virginity or keep your virginity.
Quoted for the ****ing truth baby.....
The girl who I gave my virginity away to was great in bed, but she couldn't stop lying if her life depended on it so she got the sack..
Then I got chance to take it away from a lovely lass.. Good god she was the most sexually boring person EVER EVER.. Never again..
Give me a girl who has been around the block any day
I agree, especially with your second paragraph. I'm not saying sex is void of any sort of emotional connection, I just think too many people put love and sex in the same boat. You can't fall in love with someone at a nightclub and bed them a few hours later. It's all about the enjoyment and the thrill. I'm not that sort of person myself, I've only ever had one one night stand and although it wasn't bad, I personally prefer sex involving some sort of emotional connection with a partner.
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You can't generalise. My girlfriend lost her virginity to me and gives any porn film a good run for its money
OK, fair enough she wasn't amazing to start off with so if you're speaking about one nighters then I understand!
You can't generalise. My girlfriend lost her virginity to me and gives any porn film a good run for its money
She's ugly and has a slack, STD-addled fanny?
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You can't generalise. My girlfriend lost her virginity to me and gives any porn film a good run for its money
No, the one girl I took it away from was a long term GF for the following three / 4 years, she always just led there, never showed any interest and NEVER made the first move..
If she looked anything like a porn star or shagged blokes for money then she'd be dumped. I'd dump her if she even did a page 3 shoot.
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I'm not a religious person in the least, the way i see it, it's really illogical and complicated way of saying you're afraid of death. People can believe what they want and thats fine, as long as they respect my views as well. And I guess thats one of the reasons I don't think virginity is a big thing, I didn't feel any different after I lost mine, I was really drunk admittedly but I don't think it has changed anything, I don't have hangups about swearing, sex, drinking, drugs, smoking or whatever. We are given the right to freedom from birth so why should society tell us "eww sex is dirty" no, everyone does it. "swearing is bad" no, its words of expression. To me it seems logical.
Sex is void of emotions, it's the feelings towards the person your having it with which are the reason for the emotions, when you have a tug you don't feel for your hand, sex, it's another action, like dancing.
Sex is void of emotions, it's the feelings towards the person your having it with which are the reason for the emotions, when you have a tug you don't feel for your hand, sex, it's another action, like dancing.
I think every one thinks of the "Virginty" issue differently! Im 21 and ive only slept with 4 different girls, but that doesn't bother me at all! I have a couple of mates the same age who have slept with 20 and 27 women and they can be a bit cocky some times thinking they are some kind of demi gods when we are out on the town! They give me a bit of crap some times like calling me a virgin etc because of my lack of conquestsbut i think that they look really ignorant and a bit sad when they come out with the insults!
I think you need to let your mates know that they're idiots to be honest. I'm no prude, but if at 21 a guy told me he'd been with 27 other girls, I'd send him packing, no questions asked.
Chloroform can do wonders for you mate.
Well i suppose you dont no what your missing.
Virginity is unfortunately a bit too highly valued. Its like saying "Hey, I never used my hands before! Won't it be cool when I finally use them?"
Not if you want to learn the Piano it won't be, that takes years of dedication...
Not if you want to learn the Piano it won't be, that takes years of dedication...
You really expect a man to tell the truth about that?
They will brag to their mates, then tell the new girl they've only slept with 1 or 2.
Happens all the time.
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