Virginity

good riddance to virginity, never did me any good

De-frocked a couple back in my youf, but the slappers were always more proficient.
 
I really cant see the point in "waiting for the right one". How are you going to know that they are the right one unless you wait months and months of being together before decided to have sex. May aswell go the whole way and not kiss a girl until you know shes the right one.

What's the difference?

You're hardly making babies.
 
Loowi_ashley said:
Interesting comment, what would you do if you found out your current longterm GF was in a mass orgie porn film? Saying of course your not interested in their sexual past.
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Well evidently in a long term thing you'd end up finding out anyway... however I wouldn't want to know the ins and outs (excuse the pun) of her conquests. I'd rather a girl be more on the side of adventurous than boring in the sack, if that means that she's had a fair amount of sex (albeit safe) though treated me with the love and attention I felt I deserved and if we were sexually compatible and hand mind blowing sex then of course I'd forget that pretty quickly! :D
 
I must admit if a male is a Virgin after 18 I wonder to myself why.

Sometimes the person choses not too which is fair enough but sometimes they just can't get anyone to have sex with them :p
 
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I remember when I finally lost mine, I’m a bit embarrassed to say how old I was – I was a late bloomer..!! lol but I lost it to a work colleague that was quite a bit older then me. I thought the whole thing would be a great experience and she’d teach me what I was meant to be doing..

Yeah right.. She was well practiced and previously married with two kids, and I was like James bond at first, ended up feeling like Frank Spencer afterwards…

To say, we didn’t do it again…… I’d liken the experience to masturbation with another person, but anyhow. What I’d have given to have lost it way before that night…… I shudder even to this day thinking about it, it was a horrid experience and wouldn’t wish it on anyone. Ruined by self esteem…!!

Currently with a girl who is a bit like me, not had too many relationships, had previously lost it to someone she shouldn’t have – like me (but she was a lot younger), but not had a lot of practice after that, and its fantastic, we both learn at the same time, and we no longer just have sex, we share each other on a more intimate level…..

So for me, to not have it or find someone that has lost it doesn’t matter, I think its more a case of if the person hasn’t lost if, teach them if you have, and if you find someone who is on the same level then you can learn at the same time….

I don’t go for this ‘no sex’ before marriage rubbish. Just as I’m not bothered if she was a virgin or not…… As long as we can learn to enjoy each other on the same level then its about as good as it can get………
 
Actually, to totally contradict my last post, I'd be wary if a girl had lost her virginity at something like 14 in the local park. I'd think she was a bit of a slapper.
 
I can't remember mine - was absolutely smashed out my face. I woke up like what the hell is she doing here :p
 
mr tommo said:
I really cant see the point in "waiting for the right one". How are you going to know that they are the right one unless you wait months and months of being together before decided to have sex. May aswell go the whole way and not kiss a girl until you know shes the right one.

What's the difference?

You're hardly making babies.
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I think it's more a case of whether you go rushing into it and losing it in some drunken one night stand or instead lose it with someone you really care about and feel comfortable with. Theres obviously far more to sex than there is kissing...

For me, it was the latter of the two. Although I could never be sure what it would be like to have done it the other way, I just have a feeling that emotionally, it's better to wait for that security. But I suppose really, it differs from person to person. For me though, I was happier waiting for the right time.
 
I have to say that, were I single, the question I would be expecting a 'yes' answer to would not be 'Are you a virgin?' but rather 'Do you take it up the wrongun?'...

*n
 
I lost mine when I was very young. Do I care? no. Do girls I've been with care? no. Does anyone care? no.

It's not losing virginity that matters to me, it's how many times since. Whores are never attractive. Well....
 
i think dating a virgin would be better than dating someone who's had a lot of sex.

with the virgin you can convince them kinky stuff is normal and be like "yea anal is the new missionary position everyone is doing it" :D

on a more serious note virgins are more likely to experiment while experienced partners are more likely to know what they want without much variation which = boring.
 
Meh, my only thoughts about sex is that i'm not really up for a one night stand with someone completely random who i don't know at all.

Other than that, i'm down with anything.

Although to be honest that could be liable to change :p
 
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