Weird situation - about a girl thread

Say what you feel about her imo. If she turns you down then there are 2 things in your favour

1: no more stress, thinking about whether or not she likes you or not.
2: you have got stuff off your chest.

Good luck mate, its not as easy as it sounds (obviously) but in the end it will be better for you imo.
 
I've never dated anyone younger than me. Women are like a good cheese or wine, they get better with age. And besides, women tend to be so immature before they hit 24 or so relationships are just hell. Indeed, just broke up with a 27 year old PhD student who creates GM plants because she was too immature and was playing me around. I'll be looking towards the 30 year mark, like the special reerve laphoraig sitting on my shelf, smooth and melow.

Nothing to be intimidated about. More experienced women just know how to look after you better and make you feel less intimidated.
 
ive been older and younger.... too young ie teens are a waste of time.

ive found near my age much better, although older women tend to be really insecure.

dont know why... too much baggage/bad experiences? :confused:
 
helpimcrap said:
ive been older and younger.... too young ie teens are a waste of time.

ive found near my age much better, although older women tend to be really insecure.

dont know why... too much baggage/bad experiences? :confused:
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I tend to find the opiste, older women are more secure. but they tend to have difficulties really giving in to their feelings and are nornally fairly cynical and view relationships with an air of unimportance. I guess experience goes either way
 
I know its too late as you are out now, but I would take it slowly... keep doing what you are doing and anything that will happen will happen.

Don't say anything about how you feel.. she could feel pressure and you might lose her as a friend and you don't want to do that.

Anyway we will see when you come back from the pub :)

BB x
 
badgermonkey said:
Normally I'd make a real move myself, But the fact that she's a couple years older than me really is a bit of a factor... perhaps I'm slightly intimidated by the age factor as one girl here turned me down on that basis not TOO long ago, but is this actually a factor, and should I let it get to me.
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haven't been with a girl my age, all have been either older or younger by various proportions and I dont think a few years make a big difference...
 
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Well... things didn't go badly. We're going out for an actual date sometime during the week. So things should go good :)

Zefan said:
Is she the one that sang Grease with you?
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Nah, already been with her before, didn't really work.

However she WAS the one dancing with the tall guy in the glasses in Grease :)
 
Well done mate. I'm happy for you.

During High School, I was a very shy guy. I would never take chances with any girl I fancied. But my old man gave me some advice that I would never forget.

"In 5, 10 or even 20 years, when you look back, you'll regret the things you haven't done, more than the things you have."

Will never forget that. Thanks to his advice, I am currently in a strong relationship for the past 6 months. :)
 
Chimpdaddy said:
Well done mate. I'm happy for you.

During High School, I was a very shy guy. I would never take chances with any girl I fancied. But my old man gave me some advice that I would never forget.

"In 5, 10 or even 20 years, when you look back, you'll regret the things you haven't done, more than the things you have."

Will never forget that. Thanks to his advice, I am currently in a strong relationship for the past 6 months. :)
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That's surprisingly good advice :)
 
cleanbluesky said:
haven't been with a girl my age, all have been either older or younger by various proportions and I dont think a few years make a big difference...
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Yeh I agree, an age difference doesnt matter much. I've been with people much different in age, and similar in age and it really hasn't played a part in any relationship.

ps. nice sig
 
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