Not really, you were driving beyond your or your cars ability.
Yes, which was a mistake which is learnt from. Most people have been there. Hopefully only once.
He {who I probably can't call what I think of} is trying to defend his actions, which appear to be a conscious decision, and is determined he did nothing wrong and sounds like he'd happily do it again. Which is a little worrying tbh.
We should just move on though as we're getting no-where and gaining nothing.