Sounds like you guys are being a bit more frugal than you maybe need to be?
Maybe take ya wife out for a slap up dinner sometime, buy yourself a fancy merc and get a bigger house, ya bloody cheapo!
Only jesting.
Ha.
I grew up on a farm and money sense has been drilled into me.
We never had fancy stuff. I genuinely do not like fancy places, especially food.
I like my sea kayaking, boarding and mountain biking and going to pub after for food.
This is relatively cheap.
Part of frugalness is because 3 years ago we bought our first house (260k) and I was on 35k.
I don't see the need for a bigger house. But it's small to most people. (80sqm I think).
But any more and it's more cleaning, more clutter buying, more hassle.
After buying the houseI had zero savings for first time ever.
So I've had to build that up. And I wanted 2-3 years of buffer if I was out of work.
I have that now.
This is my first year of spending. So I'm buying a van in March. Which is my first big purchase. And spending more On holidays.
But I couldn't do it before I had my savings buffer.
I don't drive to work and don't really care about flash cars anymore. They don't fit my lifestyle.
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