What should I do? (ex-boyfriend problem...again)

megzy · 24 Sep 2006 at 11:51

Well as you all know I broke up with my boyfriend last week because he was only using me for one thing, well my mate, Jane, decided to take me out to one of her mates 18th birthday party in one of the local pubs; she wanted to cheer me up because I have been feeling like **** all week. Got all dolled up, looking alright, go to the pub have a few drinks then he walks in, hand on some girls ass, all over her all night right in front of me. Then decides he wants to talk to me, he was then told to keep away from me unless he wanted a fist in the face. The whole party ended up moving to another pub cause I just couldn't stop crying.
Get very merry, well ok off my face but hey, manage to lose the rest of the party and stagger back to Jane's house.
SOme people kept saying he was only doing it to make me jealous, but from where I'm standing he did it to hurt me. So the guys in here tell me what it all means cause I'm so confused :confused:

Sherbs · 24 Sep 2006 at 11:53

Forget about him.

I know its hard etc etc.

Job done.

Goumet · 24 Sep 2006 at 11:55

Well I gotta agree.

Move on.....

Anim · 24 Sep 2006 at 11:56

just look at it as one very good reason why you broke up with him, he's a jerk.

megzy · 24 Sep 2006 at 12:07

But if he didn't still like me then why did he want to speak to me? :confused:

******* man :mad:

squiffy · 24 Sep 2006 at 12:10

megzy said:
But if he didn't still like me then why did he want to speak to me?
******* man

He's rubbing it in.

Sherbs · 24 Sep 2006 at 12:11

megzy said:
But if he didn't still like me then why did he want to speak to me?
******* man

Because he is human maybe?

theleg · 24 Sep 2006 at 12:13

Perhaps if you had let him talk to you instead of letting him get threatened with physical violence, you might know why he wanted to talk to you..

Just a thought.

SidewinderINC · 24 Sep 2006 at 12:15

Balddog said:
Perhaps if you had let him talk to you instead of letting him get threatened with physical violence, you might know why he wanted to talk to you..

Just a thought.

far too logical, but in fairness i'd have just said i didnt want a word. nothing worse than attempting to talk to people when they're like that.

megzy · 24 Sep 2006 at 12:16

Balddog said:
Perhaps if you had let him talk to you instead of letting him get threatened with physical violence, you might know why he wanted to talk to you..

Just a thought.

I didn't actually know that Janes boyfriend threatened him, Her boyfriend and my ex were good mates and I thought they were just talking

theleg · 24 Sep 2006 at 12:17

megzy said:
I didn't actually know that Janes boyfriend threatened him, Her boyfriend and my ex were good mates and I thought they were just talking

Well you knew he wanted to talk to you right? Hence the crying..If youre curious you should have spoken to him..

Why do you think he was only using you for one thing by the way?

ElRazur · 24 Sep 2006 at 12:20

Megzy ignore the idiot - Show him you are more mature, next time he does that go say hello to the girl and warn her that he has STDs and he refuse ti get it checked....

Sherbs · 24 Sep 2006 at 12:22

Surely that'd mean megzy could have STD's then El, if she had slept with him.

I wouldn't say that about about an ex of mine.

Brizzles · 24 Sep 2006 at 12:23

He sounds like a right ******.

You deserve better.

Move on.

malolo · 24 Sep 2006 at 12:23

ElRazur said:
Megzy ignore the idiot - Show him you are more mature, next time he does that go say hello to the girl and warn her that he has STDs and he refuse ti get it checked....

Wow, so much more mature.

The fact is if you let him use you for one thing then he's going to because he can get away with it. Don't give out so early next time and he might actually show you a bit more respect during and after the relationship (if it doesn't work out).

Either way, if he was trying to make you jealous or hurt you then do you really want to be wasting your time getting upset over someone who would treat you that way?

Goumet · 24 Sep 2006 at 12:24

If your feeling really daring, act as though your both getting together (2 girls), then watch him get jelous!!

ROFLAMO.

ElRazur · 24 Sep 2006 at 12:24

SherberT* said:
Surely that'd mean megzy could have STD's then El, if she had slept with him.

I wouldn't say that about about an ex of mine.

Yeah, but the whole point is to embarass the guy since he would NOT stop to be an idiot. A friend of mine did it before to an ex of hers and guess what the guy (my friend's ex) couldnt had sex with the new girl until he had a check - now imagine the embarassment and arguement it caused.

squiffy · 24 Sep 2006 at 12:34

Goumet said:
If your feeling really daring, act as though your both getting together (2 girls), then watch him get jelous!!

ROFLAMO.

Pull his girlfriends, but don't invite him.

TaKeN · 24 Sep 2006 at 12:36

Just talk to him and then smack him in the nuts.

Serves him right tbh for being a complete * SORRY MODS !! *

Andelusion · 24 Sep 2006 at 12:37

This is all common sense really, I mean just ignore him, you'll probably feel embarassed about getting tanked up, crying all night but the sooner you forget about him the better.

He's wanting to get a reaction and you gave it him, don't give him the satisfaction.