What should I do? (ex-boyfriend problem...again)

megzy said:
Well as you all know I broke up with my boyfriend last week because he was only using me for one thing, well my mate, Jane, decided to take me out to one of her mates 18th birthday party in one of the local pubs; she wanted to cheer me up because I have been feeling like **** all week.
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Okay, so you split and needed a cheering - nothing wrong in that. :)
megzy said:
Got all dolled up, looking alright, go to the pub have a few drinks then he walks in, hand on some girls ass, all over her all night right in front of me.
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But he isn't with you any more, megzy. He can do damn well what he wants - he is no longer obliged to keep your face straight.

Did you ever stop to think and consider that he might haved wanted to cheer himself up, and he does this by knocking off other women? Different people have different ways, whether or not they are aware of those ways.
megzy said:
Then decides he wants to talk to me, he was then told to keep away from me unless he wanted a fist in the face. The whole party ended up moving to another pub cause I just couldn't stop crying.
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Nice! So he comes up to you (we'll assume in a neutral mood, because you have stated how), and it's just so possible that he might have wanted to talk to you or tell you something. But no, one of your friends tells him to go away or he'll have a fist in his face. :rolleyes:

As for the crying...I mean why the hell were you crying? You haven't told us he said anything to upset you, or hurl abuse at you...:confused:
megzy said:
Get very merry, well ok off my face but hey, manage to lose the rest of the party and stagger back to Jane's house.
SOme people kept saying he was only doing it to make me jealous, but from where I'm standing he did it to hurt me. So the guys in here tell me what it all means cause I'm so confused :confused: :(
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If you want my honest advice: spend a whole hour thinking about him, and nothing but him. Do it alone in your bedroom, or something.

So what if you cry, get angry or want him back? Think why you're thinking that way, and what you could do to get over it the next time it happens.

Relationships have different variables for each person. I can't say "oh don't have sex too often, your relationship will be doomed!" - nor can I say "have sex as much as you like, and you'll both be happy!". We each have different needs, and it's up to you to determine what these needs are, then satisfy those needs.
 
I still speak to my ex girlfriends, sadly its just way :D

Wouldn't worry about it just move on. Its easier for ladies to get men than it is for men to get the ladies, just bare that in mind.
 
well you live and learn migsy.

a lot of lads are only after one thing up until the age of about 30. There are however some good apples amongst the bad....its upto you to find them.

a good way is to not sleep with them in quick time, make them wait, a good pointer is about 6 months. If they stick around then you know they are worth your time, if they dont then they are willy controlled losers who you can do without.

Now stop moapsing over this **** and find yourself a decent fella.
 
As has been said, you really need to forget and move on. Unfortunately some people really are heartless, and I've been on the recieving end of much worse than the scenario you are currently in, but I also know that you will be feeling hurt.

The best thing you can do, is move on in YOUR life, live for yourself, doing things you want to do. Live and learn to be happy with yourself, and suddenly you will feel positive, and not "need" anyone (doesn't mean to say you will only want to be single - I know I prefer being in a relationship, but definately don't NEED one anymore).

Chin up, and forget about him. Just smile :)
 
Just wondering,


Since we can't talk about TV episodes out in america because its assumed you downloaded them illegal... why can megzy talk about underage drinking! which is also illegal...


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ArmyofHarmony said:
Since we can't talk about TV episodes out in america because its assumed you downloaded them illegal... why can megzy talk about underage drinking! which is also illegal...
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That is a damn good point.
 
ArmyofHarmony said:
Just wondering,


Since we can't talk about TV episodes out in america because its assumed you downloaded them illegal... why can megzy talk about underage drinking! which is also illegal...


!!!!!
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This is a internet forum, some posters may be from America and have seen the episodes on TV this wouldn't make it illegal but talking about it would spoil it for others, besides thats off topic and so is megzy's underage drinking this is about her relationship troubles.
 
ArmyofHarmony said:
Since we can't talk about TV episodes out in america because its assumed you downloaded them illegal... why can megzy talk about underage drinking! which is also illegal...
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Technically the drinking itself isn't the illegal part, the licenced premises selling to someone under the legal age(18 in this case) are committing an offence as is anyone knowingly requesting someone under 18 to buy alcohol but as far as I recall you can drink(alcohol) at any age so therefore it isn't a problem to talk about it as such.
 
ArmyofHarmony said:
Just wondering,


Since we can't talk about TV episodes out in america because its assumed you downloaded them illegal... why can megzy talk about underage drinking! which is also illegal...


!!!!!
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he's got a point, we're not alowed to talk about illigal downloads etc, why should we be alowed to talk about illigal drinking either?
 
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