What should I do? (ex-boyfriend problem...again)

Vixen · 24 Sep 2006 at 13:22

Well if he's going to date 16 year olds, he's probably as mature as one. Take the upper ground here and just ignore him.

singist · 24 Sep 2006 at 15:57

1) You were told what to do the previous post.
2) You are too young to be out drinking.
3) See my original post when you joined .... ie Attention *****.

You are 16 ffs! act like it rather than a 13 year old.

CChrisca · 24 Sep 2006 at 16:02

singist said:
1) You were told what to do the previous post.
2) You are too young to be out drinking.
3) See my original post when you joined .... ie Attention *****.

You are 16 ffs! act like it rather than a 13 year old.

She doesn't like criticism, as I found out in the previous post on this topic "I'm only 16" but expects us to thinks its quite ok for her to go out and get trollied :rolleyes:

Memphis · 24 Sep 2006 at 16:49

singist said:
1) You were told what to do the previous post.
2) You are too young to be out drinking.
3) See my original post when you joined .... ie Attention *****.

You are 16 ffs! act like it rather than a 13 year old.

Well said.

cleanbluesky · 24 Sep 2006 at 16:54

megzy said:
So the guys in here tell me what it all means cause I'm so confused

He's just trying to taunt you.

Just act like he was insignificant, that'll make him try harder. And harder, until he humbles himself.

robmiller · 24 Sep 2006 at 16:55

You were born in 1990 :confused:

I really can't comprehend that for some reason :/

ElRazur · 24 Sep 2006 at 17:05

Guys please be easy on her, yes she is 16 and yes she makes mistakes like you and i do back then. Just because she see the forum as a way of helping with her issues dont mean she's what some of you think she is you know.

SexyGreyFox · 24 Sep 2006 at 17:15

Some posts in here are disgusting and totally uncalled for. Judging a 16 year old for drinking alcohol when I bet the vast majority of you were consuming at the same age or before. As long as you not getting bladdered and dropping your knickers for everybody then I can't see a problem.

I'm the Daddy of 19 and 17 year old girls and I'll give you the advise that I gave them at around the age of 14 and every month since.
"Boys are after one thing, they only want whats between your legs and on your chest. Its your life and its your choice but just remember if you step over that line you must be protected. Boys will tell you anything and everything to get sex and will ditch you if they don't. Be warned"

Leeum · 24 Sep 2006 at 17:36

Was in a similar situation myself recently and however much it hurts, you have to put a brave face on it - don't give him the satisfaction of knowing what he did had the desired effect.

As for the whole 16 and pub crawling thing, the OP suggests it was a party so I think it's fair to let her off

memphisto · 24 Sep 2006 at 17:57

dmpoole said:
Some posts in here are disgusting and totally uncalled for. Judging a 16 year old for drinking alcohol when I bet the vast majority of you were consuming at the same age or before. As long as you not getting bladdered and dropping your knickers for everybody then I can't see a problem.

I'm the Daddy of 19 and 17 year old girls and I'll give you the advise that I gave them at around the age of 14 and every month since.
"Boys are after one thing, they only want whats between your legs and on your chest. Its your life and its your choice but just remember if you step over that line you must be protected. Boys will tell you anything and everything to get sex and will ditch you if they don't. Be warned"

quoted for truth

megzy in then end if he was only using you for one thing then simply put Yer better off without him.

as for a lot of peeps in here whats all the hostility for ? if you dont like what she has done / said / posted then step away from the thread.

Dj_Jestar · 24 Sep 2006 at 18:04

dmpoole said:
Some posts in here are disgusting and totally uncalled for. Judging a 16 year old for drinking alcohol when I bet the vast majority of you were consuming at the same age or before. As long as you not getting bladdered and dropping your knickers for everybody then I can't see a problem.

I'm the Daddy of 19 and 17 year old girls and I'll give you the advise that I gave them at around the age of 14 and every month since.
"Boys are after one thing, they only want whats between your legs and on your chest. Its your life and its your choice but just remember if you step over that line you must be protected. Boys will tell you anything and everything to get sex and will ditch you if they don't. Be warned"

".. also be advised I have a shotgun and a shovel ready and waiting for when you decide to bring any of them home.."

Chronos-X · 24 Sep 2006 at 18:06

dmpoole said:
Boys are after one thing, they only want whats between your legs and on your chest. Its your life and its your choice but just remember if you step over that line you must be protected. Boys will tell you anything and everything to get sex and will ditch you if they don't. Be warned"

Ultimately, yes. But by the same token, girls are after two things: the guy with the biggest willy and the biggest wallet. I challenge you to disprove me but at the end of the day we're animals - men seek to procreate, and women seek security (for their young). Not that I want kids like

Grrrrr · 24 Sep 2006 at 18:09

This thread reminds me a lot of Stand_by_me_girl

cleanbluesky · 24 Sep 2006 at 18:17

Chronos-X said:
Ultimately, yes. But by the same token, girls are after two things: the guy with the biggest willy and the biggest wallet. I challenge you to disprove me but at the end of the day we're animals - men seek to procreate, and women seek security (for their young). Not that I want kids like

So my evolution teacher used to tell me, although sexual selection is a bit more sophisticated these days

el_dazza · 24 Sep 2006 at 18:20

Girls like to rub it in their ex's faces as well as guys, i find far more common for girls to be doing this sort of thing, and it's really harsh on the person they've broken up with. Just ignore his petty attempts, he'll get bored in the end, then you can claim victory

Ste · 24 Sep 2006 at 18:27

Balddog said:
Perhaps if you had let him talk to you instead of letting him get threatened with physical violence, you might know why he wanted to talk to you..

Just a thought.

Too right.

Nothing worse than trying to make it up with an ex. and having their mates on guard telling you where to go :rolleyes:

Locky · 24 Sep 2006 at 19:32

he was rubbing it in everyone does it tbh at some stage

your young [i think] plenty of fish left

youll be ok in the end and think what a idiot he is

mctiny · 24 Sep 2006 at 22:10

Grrrrr said:
This thread reminds me a lot of Stand_by_me_girl

woooh blast from the past :eek:

RandomTom · 24 Sep 2006 at 22:15

robmiller said:
You were born in 1990

I really can't comprehend that for some reason :/

Even though I was born in 1989 to me people that were born then, they just seem really young, and like they've not experienced things, sounds really random but yeh, I can't really add to things like this because every angle has already been said. If you need some space to be away from him that'll be for the best.

Biohazard · 24 Sep 2006 at 22:39

Do you think they would ever list relationship threads alongside medical threads just to save these arguments?