What should I do? (ex-boyfriend problem...again)

VeNT · 25 Sep 2006 at 12:04

G|mp said:
Did i say it offended me?

I said i thought it was being outlawed

I'll go get my Peacemaker......
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tbh I think your right, relationship threads where a no no?

iCraig · 25 Sep 2006 at 12:06

No, I think any type of thread is fine as long as it doesn't break the rules. It's the trolls that post drivel in them that were supposed to be cracked down on.

G|mp · 25 Sep 2006 at 12:06

I was pointing out after all the recent discussions in here about how the forum would like to get back to beingmore of a computer related forum not some kind of ranting platform for teenagers and chav haters

Maybe i was wrong

ArmyofHarmony · 25 Sep 2006 at 12:07

R34P3R said:
This is a internet forum, some posters may be from America and have seen the episodes on TV this wouldn't make it illegal but talking about it would spoil it for others, besides thats off topic and so is megzy's underage drinking this is about her relationship troubles.

what the hell, are you trying to become a mod or something?

this post made me crack up

tbh i didnt even read megzy's post, just skim read it and saw the drinking thing and thought i'd bring up a good point!

megzy, like most 16 year olds sneaks into pubs and get served, just lucky not to be IDed...but still its probably illegal, no less illegal than downloading an episode off the internet. Even so...by saying you've seen the newest Stargate (for example) nothing illegal is mentioned... but megzy saying about underage drinking is talking about something illegal...so its infact worse yeha?

paradigm · 25 Sep 2006 at 12:11

ArmyofHarmony said:
what the hell, are you trying to become a mod or something?

No, he is just telling it like it is. I have been umming and arring wether to post something similar since I first saw the "underage drinking" tripe.

ArmyofHarmony said:
this post made me crack up

Lame SOH?

ArmyofHarmony said:
tbh i didnt even read megzy's post, just skim read it and saw the drinking thing and thought i'd bring up a good point!

If you can't even be bothered to read the thread, don't reply to it :confused:

ArmyofHarmony said:
megzy, like most 16 year olds sneaks into pubs and get served, just lucky not to be IDed...but still its probably illegal, no less illegal than downloading an episode off the internet. Even so...by saying you've seen the newest Stargate (for example) nothing illegal is mentioned... but megzy saying about underage drinking is talking about something illegal...so its infact worse yeha?

At no point did she actually say she drank alcohol (even if one assumes that this is the case). Secondly, a 16yr old drinking in a pub with a meal is NOT illegal, we have no idea of the full scenario, so why try and comment on it, as it IS OT.

VeNT · 25 Sep 2006 at 12:13

paradigm said:
At no point did she actually say she drank alcohol (even if one assumes that this is the case). Secondly, a 16yr old drinking in a pub with a meal is NOT illegal, we have no idea of the full scenario, so why try and comment on it, as it IS OT.

she said she was drunk after leaving.

Get very merry, well ok off my face but hey,

Yas786 · 25 Sep 2006 at 12:14

megzy said:
But if he didn't still like me then why did he want to speak to me?
******* man

Because hes just doing what you women do to us fellas...its called getting even

Anyways forget him and move on....

paradigm · 25 Sep 2006 at 12:15

VeNT said:
she said she was drunk after leaving.

No, she said she was merry, and staggered.

I know people that can do that on redbull/coke alone. The caffine just gets to them!

G|mp · 25 Sep 2006 at 12:17

Its Holsworthy ffs, the only thing for teenagers to do is drink

z0mbi3 · 25 Sep 2006 at 12:32

iCraig said:
No, I think any type of thread is fine as long as it doesn't break the rules. It's the trolls that post drivel in them that were supposed to be cracked down on.

^ The truth. Pretty much why a lot of the last page and a half has been OT crap.

Megzy, although you were very upset on the night you'll most probably find that the drink made it all seem much worse than it actually was (isn't this always the case?).

As for this guy... you're 16, he can't be much older. Guys are less mature than girls so he's probably just acting his age about it, trying to show you that he doesn't need you but being a twit about it (see what I did there?).

Anyway next time maybe stay in and have a bottle of wine with some freinds. It's cheaper and leaves less room for drama.

Raumarik · 25 Sep 2006 at 12:51

Some really horrible posts on here

Anyway it is possible he wanted to find out how Megzy was or just chat to her. It's also possible that he's not as nice as that. The only way you'll find out Megzy is by chatting to him or getting a very trusted friend to do it on your behalf but he really doesn't seem to be good for you so I hope you decide to try and move on and succeed.

Getting over someone can be awfully difficult and it helps to stick to the "no contact" rule wherever possible. If it's annoying you get a mate to talk to him but dont' do it yourself if your still really upset about how things worked out, he's obviously a bit of a plank and hasn't treated you well so no point lining yourself up for another huge fall.

Lean on your friends, on here and more importantly in real life

you'll meet someone else who's ten times better than this prat soon enough!

Toxicseagull · 25 Sep 2006 at 12:57

same idea as kami, personally i still talk to my ex's and its always good to natter a week or so later when everything has calmed down a bit..
however he could just be a bit of a arse and ask you what you thought of his new bird.

the drinking isnt the issue, and if anyone here is shocked at people going out drinking at 16 youve lead a very sheltered life.

ArmyofHarmony · 25 Sep 2006 at 13:32

paradigm said:
At no point did she actually say she drank alcohol (even if one assumes that this is the case). Secondly, a 16yr old drinking in a pub with a meal is NOT illegal, we have no idea of the full scenario, so why try and comment on it, as it IS OT.

In threads where people break the rules by talking about US aired TV episodes, they don't say they downloaded it illegally either, yet its assumed.

LoadsaMoney · 25 Sep 2006 at 13:37

Toxicseagull said:
the drinking isnt the issue, and if anyone here is shocked at people going out drinking at 16 youve lead a very sheltered life.

Exactly, look at all the 11 yr olds and up getting bladdered in parks, doing drugs and humping, its normal, its happening everywhere, do you go about with your eyes closed.

Id move on as hes not worth bothering about, id say he was only all over that girl to make you jealous, and hurt you, and he succeeded by the sounds of it, he's just messing with you, don't give him the satisfaction of letting him see that it bothers you, he'll probably soon get bored when he sees your not bothered.

Good luck in whatever you decide to do.

One More Solo · 25 Sep 2006 at 14:51

Confusion said:
well you live and learn migsy.

a lot of lads are only after one thing up until the age of about 30. There are however some good apples amongst the bad....its upto you to find them.

a good way is to not sleep with them in quick time, make them wait, a good pointer is about 6 months. If they stick around then you know they are worth your time, if they dont then they are willy controlled losers who you can do without.

Now stop moapsing over this **** and find yourself a decent fella.

That's not how it works.

iCraig · 25 Sep 2006 at 15:32

Confusion said:
well you live and learn migsy.

a lot of lads are only after one thing up until the age of about 30. There are however some good apples amongst the bad....its upto you to find them.

a good way is to not sleep with them in quick time, make them wait, a good pointer is about 6 months. If they stick around then you know they are worth your time, if they dont then they are willy controlled losers who you can do without.

That wouldn't work.

She could be waiting 6 months for him to stick around, and then sleep with him. Who's to say he hasn't been knocking off ***** in the mean time, and she's just another number? Who's to say he really likes her and his intentions are honourable but he finds the lack of sex (which don't forget, is perfectly healthy in a teenage relationship) frustrating?

You can't employ a system to this, you just have to be as good a judge of character as possible, and excercise a bit of trust if you think it's necessary.

Voltage · 25 Sep 2006 at 15:36

fair enough, but my point is valid, sleeping with people when you havent known them long and expecting a lasting relationship, in most cases, is asking for trouble.

One More Solo · 25 Sep 2006 at 15:38

iCraig said:
That wouldn't work.

She could be waiting 6 months for him to stick around, and then sleep with him. Who's to say he hasn't been knocking off ***** in the mean time, and she's just another number? Who's to say he really likes her and his intentions are honourable but he finds the lack of sex (which don't forget, is perfectly healthy in a teenage relationship) frustrating?

You can't employ a system to this, you just have to be as good a judge of character as possible, and excercise a bit of trust if you think it's necessary.

Exactly, and not to mention all the emotional relationships that come from purely physical ones.

Spacky · 25 Sep 2006 at 15:38

Confusion said:
fair enough, but my point is valid, sleeping with people when you havent known them long and expecting a lasting relationship, in most cases, is asking for trouble.

Sucky sucky, love you long time?

Visage · 25 Sep 2006 at 15:40

Confusion said:
fair enough, but my point is valid, sleeping with people when you havent known them long and expecting a lasting relationship, in most cases, is asking for trouble.

Rubbish.

Equally ridiculous, IMO is the notion in this thread that women should make men wait - what about the women who want sex just as much as the men?

Has this forum gone back to the 1950's?