To fill in a back story:
This time last year, my girlfriend of two years admitted to "cheating" on me with someone from work. I get mad, I get upset, I cry a lot and I face up to it and decide I love her loads and that we should move on.
9 months down the line or so it still hasn't gone away. I push and push her to give me the real deal because I feel something isn't right. She's lost loads of weight, she hates work and lifes a general drag. She eventually came to the conclusion that the persons she "cheated with "raped" her.
Im shocked, upset and very angry. A) for not telling me 9 months ago and B for letting it happen more than once. I advise and practically force her to tell the police. Police take a statement from me and her and she goes off to a specialist officer to talk about all this. She decides she wants to move on etc etc.
Now I find myself wanting more from the story. I tracked down the accused other half and advise her of the situation. I get mixed reactions as expected and eventually get a call from the accused. He denies it like some flamboyant salesman leaving me worse off in the confused department myself. I tell him the golden facts and leave him to it. My girlfriend wants to get on with her life and she won't pursue the lost cause of the allegation towards him.
I decided one night to park next to his car at his workplace and ask him for the real truth. All I go from it that he was a cocky so and so who had no real comeback from what I had to say. I decided after that to leave it.
Not long after I received a visit from the police telling me to not contact the said person again. The policeman had no previous involvement and just passed on a warning, but with no ultimatum.
Now after a few drinks I find myself digging up the past and I sent a message to the accused other half. I get a call from the accused, it goes on for an hour and he give me all his typical BS and threatens me etc. It was a mistake for me, I can live without this, until I've had a drink.
Now I'm worried I'll get into irreversible trouble over some cocky **** who seemingly did what he was accused of. There was no further action taken from my girlfriend simply because there was no real evidence and that the police told her it would be a "grueling" year long process to get to court etc and the nothing is guaranteed etc. She wanted to move on and that was fair by my standards.
So, whats the worst I can expect? To be honest I could track him down and give him what he deserves, call in a favour etc. But I'm better than that. I sent a message and he called me back to give me ****, so really it's half a dozen of whatever etc. I got really angry with him on the phone, quite hysterical too and he laughed at me mostly as well as fell for my traps. I hate his kind. Full of it and "better than everyone", when up close you realise he aint no player like the rest of us.
Its a horrid situation. Mention it and the other goes to tears like I killed her puppy litter. I want justice, but it seems im just the piggy in the middle.
This time last year, my girlfriend of two years admitted to "cheating" on me with someone from work. I get mad, I get upset, I cry a lot and I face up to it and decide I love her loads and that we should move on.
9 months down the line or so it still hasn't gone away. I push and push her to give me the real deal because I feel something isn't right. She's lost loads of weight, she hates work and lifes a general drag. She eventually came to the conclusion that the persons she "cheated with "raped" her.
Im shocked, upset and very angry. A) for not telling me 9 months ago and B for letting it happen more than once. I advise and practically force her to tell the police. Police take a statement from me and her and she goes off to a specialist officer to talk about all this. She decides she wants to move on etc etc.
Now I find myself wanting more from the story. I tracked down the accused other half and advise her of the situation. I get mixed reactions as expected and eventually get a call from the accused. He denies it like some flamboyant salesman leaving me worse off in the confused department myself. I tell him the golden facts and leave him to it. My girlfriend wants to get on with her life and she won't pursue the lost cause of the allegation towards him.
I decided one night to park next to his car at his workplace and ask him for the real truth. All I go from it that he was a cocky so and so who had no real comeback from what I had to say. I decided after that to leave it.
Not long after I received a visit from the police telling me to not contact the said person again. The policeman had no previous involvement and just passed on a warning, but with no ultimatum.
Now after a few drinks I find myself digging up the past and I sent a message to the accused other half. I get a call from the accused, it goes on for an hour and he give me all his typical BS and threatens me etc. It was a mistake for me, I can live without this, until I've had a drink.
Now I'm worried I'll get into irreversible trouble over some cocky **** who seemingly did what he was accused of. There was no further action taken from my girlfriend simply because there was no real evidence and that the police told her it would be a "grueling" year long process to get to court etc and the nothing is guaranteed etc. She wanted to move on and that was fair by my standards.
So, whats the worst I can expect? To be honest I could track him down and give him what he deserves, call in a favour etc. But I'm better than that. I sent a message and he called me back to give me ****, so really it's half a dozen of whatever etc. I got really angry with him on the phone, quite hysterical too and he laughed at me mostly as well as fell for my traps. I hate his kind. Full of it and "better than everyone", when up close you realise he aint no player like the rest of us.
Its a horrid situation. Mention it and the other goes to tears like I killed her puppy litter. I want justice, but it seems im just the piggy in the middle.
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