Who has cheated on a partner and why?

The amount of times Ive come close to this and then just pulled back.

What is it with beautiful, buxom women taking an interest in you when youre committed already :confused:

So glad my missus doesnt read this forum ;)
 
This issue of cheating gets more moral as you get older, well i think so any way.
For the likes of Wild58 & Elrazur being young and some care free. you are albe to indulge in activities with different girls, if you are in or out of a relationship.

Though as you get older and set up home with your partner, there is more a stake for the act of cheating. Not just the potential loss of the girl friend/wife, ut also the home you live in.
hence why i think the moral issue is stronger as you get older !
Any way thats my opinion, may not necessarily be correct !
 
did it not so long ago.

she was hacking me off and nagging a lot.

so i got hold of a girl from work. dont trust women anyway, may as well treat them the same
 
ive been in 2-3 long term relationships over the last 7 years. i split up with my ex about 3 saturdays ago.

on saturday last weekend i went out with mates and went home with two student nurses.

cheating/going out pulling has nothing to do with age. people can cheat at any age, beleive me.

going out, pulling, different girl for every weekend, wheres the harm in that, unless you have trouble getting girls
 
It's not big and it's not funny! Only by the grace of God (and copious amounts of stupidity, so I've been told) is it even worth contemplating! I've been there and had the t-shirt and I can say with some authority that it's not the nicest thing you want to happen to any relationship. This is especially so when kids are involved. Just don't do it, it's not worth it.
 
Well I think that if you are not married or in a very serious relationship a little fling wouldnt hurt ;) hehe

P.S. I hope Pyro does not read this! Just kidding.. :cool:
 
Crikey , the thread is alive again ! :p

Just wanted to add a few more words from the perspective of the person who has been cheated on

I was with my ex from the age of 16 - 22 .. even though he was mentally abusive to me I honestly never thought he would cheat on me. He always swore that if he ever caught ME cheating I would be the sorry one

I finally left him and found out AFTERWARDS that nearly every time he went out with the lads he was sleeping with another girl .. He was also chatting to girls on ICQ and arranging to meet up with them

I felt so stupid that I didn't catch him out :(

Even now , 4 years on it's still affecting me :/

Even though I am in a very happy and stable relationship and even though I KNOW Desmo would never even entertain the thought of cheating on me I've always got that little gremlin in the back on my mind :(

I'm over sensitive to jokes about him playing away and get very upset , I am quite insecure even now

Luckily Desmo completely understands and is very supportive. Hopefully this little gremilin will go away in time :)

So to those of you who HAVE or ARE cheating think again ! .. you can seriously affect that person for years to come :mad:
 
I've been cheated on, twice by the same person :/ Just to think I gave her a 3rd chance.

I broke up with her last week as no longer have any passion for her, or the relationship... I haven't been single for over 5 years! It's weird!

One thing to point out, on the receiving end of the situation, it really does screw your head up, and no matter how much you think you gotta be with this person and how everyone makes mistakes... it will more than likely happen again.

It hurts like hell.
 
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