Why are some people so against others doing well

At the end of the day he is bragging about earning in a year what Danny 'Bambi on Ice' Welbeck earns in a fortnight. When you phrase it like that it adds perspective I think.

London is that expensive that 130k would get snapped up quickly and you'd still be living in a shoebox. You could buy half of Stoke on Trent for that amount.
 
To be fair 130k is a good wage at any age, but in banking it really isn't that special if you're trading, even at 28.

It might be average in certain small divisions of smallish sectors, but "not that impressive" is essentially saying "pfft it's only a Ferrari". Either the person saying it is incredibly out of touch, or is the sort of person who plays salary one-upmanship on an internet forum.
 
A 6 figure salary at 28 isn't really that impressive.

it is if its your salary... however most people earning 'six figures' actually don't have a 'six figure salary' but rather have bonuses, commission or are contractors and in total over a year they make an amount equivalent to a six figure sum - usually one starting with a '1'
 
It might be average in certain small divisions of smallish sectors, but "not that impressive" is essentially saying "pfft it's only a Ferrari". Either the person saying it is incredibly out of touch, or is the sort of person who plays salary one-upmanship on an internet forum.

Or the person saying it simply doesn't care. To some people it may be "only a Ferrari" to others it may be "wow".
 
It is a statistical fact that if you were born in a well off family you are far more likely to be well off yourself. Life isn't fair and the people who can make it fair have no interest in changing the status quo because incidently they themselves are rich.

It is a statistical fact that if you try harder at all ages you will most likely earn more money than those who never try, on average.
It is a fact that everyone in the UK has access to free or affordable higher education. Anyone mentally capable can get a degree in Math/CS/physics from a Russell group uni and be earning 6 figures by the time they are 30 if they are suitably motivated.

People make all sort of choices in life that affect their future. Some people make wise choices that help them in life - spend longer revising, try harder to learn new skills, put up with poor work environment/hours in the short term for long term gain, risk moving cities or countries to have better chances at the cost of loosing friends/family contact.


Even if it is all entirely down to luck I don't see the need to be bitter or jealous. Someone wins the lottery by pure luck, no need to resent them. Nothing stopping you buying tickets and trying your luck, or taking that money and doing something else with it like investing in a start up and seeing if it is the next google.


I had friends that complained about salaries north of the border. I had other friend that graduated and went straight to London and earned twice the amount. None of the friends that stayed had any objective reason to stay (e.g. sick parent needs taking care of), they just didn't want the stress of moving, or didn't want to live in the big city. that is fine, but they then have no right to complain at the salaries of others. I have friend that moved into finance, IB, contracting for McKiknsey etc . all get paid boatloads and have a miserable time in the process. I have other friends who went on to do postdocs and get paid 15K a year despite being smarter and better educated. That is all a choice.
 
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I totally agree with you D.P. however the problem is that you do then need to have an idea of which road you wish to travel at an earlyish age. I was fortunate to be quite clear in what my path would be and that ability to focus does help. But it would be remiss to be jealous of other people purely because they did have that focus. Although I do wonder whether most people do have that focus but people tell them they just won't make it so they go off and do something they aren't really motivated to do and therefore never really get there.
 
It is a statistical fact that if you were born in a well off family you are far more likely to be well off yourself. Life isn't fair and the people who can make it fair have no interest in changing the status quo because incidently they themselves are rich.

You need to look in a mirror. The person staining back is the person who can make the biggest impact on your life and provide you with the opportunity to live a life of success. Or you might see a bloke who prefers to moan about their life and blame other people for why. World is full of people who had nothing and now do, they chose the first bloke, choice is yours.
 
It's relative. In Scotland a house is 2k, in London that buys a small coffee ;)

rubbish on your over exaggeration there lol housaes are several hundred thousands and prices go up every year. that doesnt mean your point is invalid just that it is now ehere near as bad as you have stated it.

9k a year barely pays my bills if a house was 2k as you say I would have bought a place by now.:confused::eek:
 
I totally agree with you D.P. however the problem is that you do then need to have an idea of which road you wish to travel at an earlyish age. I was fortunate to be quite clear in what my path would be and that ability to focus does help. But it would be remiss to be jealous of other people purely because they did have that focus. Although I do wonder whether most people do have that focus but people tell them they just won't make it so they go off and do something they aren't really motivated to do and therefore never really get there.

A solid point and I totally agree that a plan is a great starting point as I said above. However, not having a plan at 16, 20 or 30 doesn't mean you can't be retired at 50, it just makes it much much harder.
 
rubbish on your over exaggeration there lol housaes are several hundred thousands and prices go up every year. that doesnt mean your point is invalid just that it is now ehere near as bad as you have stated it.

9k a year barely pays my bills if a house was 2k as you say I would have bought a place by now.:confused::eek:

You got I was joking right? Coffe is 1500 not 2k
 
@ porushinobu: Surely even if you are minimum wage and working 37.5 hrs per week you would be on 9.8k (presuming you are young). Now only working 37.5 hrs per week gives you plenty of time to get an education to gain access to a better job or to actually perform a second and/or third job.
 
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A solid point and I totally agree that a plan is a great starting point as I said above. However, not having a plan at 16, 20 or 30 doesn't mean you can't be retired at 50, it just makes it much much harder.

And it doesn't mean you can't switch career paths. It just helps if you transition to something where you can apply previous experience.
 
I totally agree with you D.P. however the problem is that you do then need to have an idea of which road you wish to travel at an earlyish age. I was fortunate to be quite clear in what my path would be and that ability to focus does help. But it would be remiss to be jealous of other people purely because they did have that focus. Although I do wonder whether most people do have that focus but people tell them they just won't make it so they go off and do something they aren't really motivated to do and therefore never really get there.

yeah, childhood can be quite important.
At high school I didn't have a definitive career plan but I knew I needed to do well and get to the best university I can on a course and then do well there.
I regular stayed at home and did revision or prepared for exams while other were out drinking. In the 14-18 year range there is a big divide in maturity. Some kids would play football after dossing around in school before drinking white lighting and buckfast in the park others made sure that school grades were kept up and tried to have as much fun around that.




Even later on there are many important decisions. Some people sit in a dead end job depressed about it but dont take the initiative to make a change even although they are perfectly capable mentally of earning a reasonable salary.
 
@ porushinobu: Surely even if you are minimum wage and working 37.5 hrs per week you would be on 9.8k (presuming you are young). Now only working 37.5 hrs per week gives you plenty of time to get an education to gain access to a better job or to actually perform a second and/or third job.

well yes, but the fact remains that being in that "limited income" limits options in terms of education. I cant pay to move to another city without wasting YEARS saving up which is a neccessary step but annoying. Its difficult to eat healthily because I have to always eat what's cheap.

but theres also other factors that annoy me about my pay. I should be earning around 12k in my current role (i know i have said this before lol) but I am not getting my grade... yet ( after 7 months they are getting me annoyed) then theres the fact that you look in any other place and the exact same role is around 20k.

but since thgeres no oppurtunities atm for it support in my area I have to stick it out and wait. despite all this my workmates are great and I am learning a few things, but even 15k would be good, I would have some financial security, I wouldn't have to check the bank daily to see if I can afford the next weekly shop or end up having a rice and frozen veg week.

right now as it stands 850 per month is a silly amount of pay after bills I have like 40 pounds a week for food ( and thats if i am lucky lol)

anyway enough repeated ranting.
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