Why are YOU single?

For a whole variety of reasons.

My main one being that I am not in the slightest bit attractive. I wouldn't say I'm ugly but there is nothing that makes me attractive either.
The next is my attitude. Back around the end of school I fell madly in love with someone (As you do at that age :p ), and when it didn't work out I became incredibly depressed about not just that but it set me off about a lot of other things.
Because of this I can often come across as a bit of a ******* to other people, especially women (Not in the way that I talk to them like crap or show no respect, but the fact I struggle in conversation so sometimes come across as rude/blunt etc). Even today this still affects me and when I do become friends with them I instantly get friend-zoned.
The next reason is that I don't just go out with people for the sake of a relationship, I like to properly like being with them before I commit to a relationship. Problem with this is that I often end up obsessing about individual girls so never get anywhere due to them never being interested in me. (Always put this down to me not being particularly attractive).

Because of all this I spend most of my time on a bit of a downer and this turns them away even more. (Not to say I'm a big miserable sod, just that I occasionaly go through terms of being completely down due to having nothing going for me in my life).

It's all a vicious circle :(
 
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arc@css said:
Me, well shy, quiet, not really that bothered or I guess I would do something about it; something productive like make an effort, lol. Haven't been on the scene for a while now and think there are (at least for me) other things to life than mortgage, sex, kids and money though we are living in a material world and they do have their place to some degree. When the right lady turns up and if its the right time then fine. I am fairly single minded though and when you've been single for quite a while like I have you get perfectly comfortable with your own company, not that it has ever been an issue anyway. I rarely get lonely. I have a good family and friends and working life so things are fine. I think most, not all, but quite a few ladies prefer the man to make the move and that's something I never do so I guess people must have thought I am not interested. I can always find a reason not to ask a lady out though, ooo commitment...something that doesn't come naturally for this Sagittarian;)
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Mostly this. I'm pretty sure there's girls at work that fancy me, so I'll just keep chattin to them and see what happens.
 
Why am I single?.. I love the fact that there seems to be a loti of things that people seeem to have hidden!... IMO... this is the English way!? it is hard to imagen coversation, wise, Anti Ice seems real??
 
Well allways been single up to now...

However, i was never short of sex?

Either had to wait till a Friday night or i had casual sex with a friends?

But having a GF you like is so hard to find, yet you do anything for them, 2 weeks later, she has screwed your friend.

Tech Geeks With The Dosh!

Don't show it off, act like you don't earn allot, you will meet the real woman who like you.
 
Because I do not enjoy doing what exposes you to a large 'audience' of woman - E.g. pubs/clubs coupled with the fact I have high standards.

At this moment in time I am sorting other things out in life and am pretty happy knowing that I will not be in a serious relationship in the near future. Enjoying "freedom" after getting out of a long distance relationship that in retrospect was terrible.

Can probably attribute my location to a limited market also :p
 
Sin_Chase said:
Because I do not enjoy doing what exposes you to a large 'audience' of woman - E.g. pubs/clubs coupled with the fact I have high standards.

At this moment in time I am sorting other things out in life and am pretty happy knowing that I will not be in a serious relationship in the near future. Enjoying "freedom" after getting out of a long distance relationship that in retrospect was terrible.

Can probably attribute my location to a limited market also :p
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Hey Hey lol

My parents met at a night Club, Fathers an Accountant and mothers a Head Midwife ?

Nothing wrong with pubs/clubs its a great scene to meet people.
 
I'm enjoying it at the moment and any girl that I start seeing at home is pointless as i'm at uni for most of the year, i've just been having fun over these holidays (and there's still a month left ;) )

I haven't been in a serious relationship for a year or two, and the last couple of girls I've been seeing were mad (read: serious fruit cakes), but I think I could do it again now if I met the right girl.
 
Zirax said:
Well simply I have a limp. Bugger all I can do about it. I'll chat to anyone and get on well with chatting them up but it's only when I walk towards or with a girl, you see their face drop. Can't say I hold it against any of them, it's reasonable. It hasn't stopped me though and I'm still trying. In the mean time I'm 26 and have loads of time to pursue hobbies & sort the house.
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That wouldnt put me off a bloke in the least, and its a shame the only girls you have met have treated you that way.
 
Isn't there a spider (or something like that) that fakes a limp so as to get close to the females without being eaten and mate with them?

I like the strategy.
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