Me, well shy, quiet, not really that bothered or I guess I would do something about it; something productive like make an effort, lol. Haven't been on the scene for a while now and think there are (at least for me) other things to life than mortgage, sex, kids and money though we are living in a material world and they do have their place to some degree. When the right lady turns up and if its the right time then fine. I am fairly single minded though and when you've been single for quite a while like I have you get perfectly comfortable with your own company, not that it has ever been an issue anyway. I rarely get lonely. I have a good family and friends and working life so things are fine. I think most, not all, but quite a few ladies prefer the man to make the move and that's something I never do so I guess people must have thought I am not interested. I can always find a reason not to ask a lady out though, ooo commitment...something that doesn't come naturally for this Sagittarian
Broke up with a wonderful girl 7 months ago due to long distance and not having the time I wanted to give to her as a result of work and college. I'm socially inept and don't meet many new people at all so chances of me meeting anyone new in the near future are slim to nil.
Been happily in a relationship for 3 years
To be honest I've never actively sought out a girlfriend but I have rarely been single.
So my advice is to stop trying so hard
Edit: Oh, and getting out more helps.
Im shy, self-critical and probably a little paranoid (too many years as the fat kid, before I got thinner), and not the most exciting as it goes; do a day job etc etc, and am generally not that great at meeting people (perhaps Im overtly picky without realising!).
That said one of my exes from a few years back got back in touch recently and seems really keen, so I may well end up getting back with her, I always was fond of her, and we're both a little older and vaguely more mature now haha. Guess I can't be that bad then
Because my last girlfriend left me and I can't be bothered with finding someone else at the moment due to my work hours and where I live.
im too quiet and shy around people i dont know, esp women.
Well simply I have a limp. Bugger all I can do about it. I'll chat to anyone and get on well with chatting them up but it's only when I walk towards or with a girl, you see their face drop. Can't say I hold it against any of them, it's reasonable. It hasn't stopped me though and I'm still trying. In the mean time I'm 26 and have loads of time to pursue hobbies & sort the house.
:/
Can't see why it's a problem really, if someone has an issue with something as simple and common as that then they really aren't worth it anyway.
How old is old?I'm singly because I don't realy know any girls my own age.
The upshot....or not depends how you look at it, is that I am quite good with older women.
I absolutely hate myself for it.
How old is old?