Why does it hurt so much?

Deleted member 77746 · 7 Apr 2012 at 15:36

It could be that 'your ex' has issues and to comfort her she had to do things with someone else.

This is how the world rolls and how people get over relationships unfortunately.

Elixir · 7 Apr 2012 at 15:36

Clov!s said:
I cant imagine having sex with someone else, only had sex with my ex the same day we ended

Wait wait wait... does this mean:

You have only had sex with your ex since you split up
You only had sex with your ex on one occasion, which was the day you split up
You have only had sex once, which was with your ex on the day you split up

?

Deleted member 77746 · 7 Apr 2012 at 15:37

Clov!s said:
I cant imagine having sex with someone else, only had sex with my ex the same day we ended

Go do it, you will feel much better than you do now.

Philtor · 7 Apr 2012 at 15:42

grudas said:
Shes just trying to get over you or she was skank from the start

True. Women can be cruel at times.

Captain · 7 Apr 2012 at 15:43

Elixir said:
Wait wait wait... does this mean:

You have only had sex with your ex since you split up

You only had sex with your ex on one occasion, which was the day you split up

You have only had sex once, which was with your ex on the day you split up

?

Lol, no we had sex almost everyday of our relationship, and no she isnt my only sexual partner.

Dunks · 7 Apr 2012 at 15:46

Clov!s said:
I cant imagine having sex with someone else, only had sex with my ex the same day we ended

Guess you didn't quite make the grade. :cool:

unwashed potato! · 7 Apr 2012 at 15:46

no doubt your ex will be regretting every minute of it atm and prob feel worse then she alread felt before heading out.

you say you've been on a night out since to town, why did you go out? although you didn't try what was your reason for a now newly single guy for going out to town before you walked out the door honestly? i bet you wanted to try meet new girls but it ended up not feeling right.

maybe this pushed her to go do the same as she was thinking already he's going out sleeping around i best do the same, or maybe she was just more successful at it then you as lets face it girls can get it easier then guys.

Philtor · 7 Apr 2012 at 15:47

Go out tonight and find a new girl. Your ex will be a distant memory in the morning

Deleted member 77746 · 7 Apr 2012 at 15:47

Dunks said:
Guess you didn't quite make the grade.

oOoOoOoOoO harsh.

Mrs Seabiscuit · 7 Apr 2012 at 15:49

Clov!s said:
and no she isnt my only sexual partner.

So you cheated! MTFU also haha your post count you will learn not to post relationship threads and expect sympathy pah haha.

Captain · 7 Apr 2012 at 15:50

Mammalian said:
no doubt your ex will be regretting every minute of it atm and prob feel worse then she alread felt before heading out.

you say you've been on a night out since to town, why did you go out? although you didn't try what was your reason for a now newly single guy for going out to town before you walked out the door honestly? i bet you wanted to try meet new girls but it ended up not feeling right.

maybe this pushed her to go do the same as she was thinking already he's going out sleeping around i best do the same, or maybe she was just more successful at it then you as lets face it girls can get it easier then guys.

Ye she feels horrible as do i, we spoke in person for a few moments today while i picked my stuff up and she burst into tears as soon as i saw her.

I had just had a bad day, got a text from my mate saying come out and hang with the lads to make you feel better, i had no intention of chatting some bird up, i honestly just wanted to be around my mates and cheer up.

Mrs Seabiscuit · 7 Apr 2012 at 15:50

forever alone jpeg

Captain · 7 Apr 2012 at 15:51

Mrs Seakitchen said:
So you cheated! MTFU also haha your post count you will learn not to post relationship threads and expect sympathy pah haha.

haha lol, i didnt want sympathy, i wanted you guys to be mean to get me out of this bad mood ive been in for the last few days.

dal · 7 Apr 2012 at 15:52

philtor said:
Go out tonight and find a new girl. Your ex will be a distant memory in the morning

+1

Skeptic · 7 Apr 2012 at 15:53

She was over it a long time ago; she cried because she feels bad. I think it is time to MTFU, unfortunately, and get on with things.

Mrs Seabiscuit · 7 Apr 2012 at 15:57

Clov!s said:
haha lol, i didnt want sympathy, i wanted you guys to be mean to get me out of this bad mood ive been in for the last few days.

*cackles manically* ok challenge accepted!!

Go and take a walk in the rain then find a pub that sells UBU drink said UBU and

! Then eat homeade pizza.

Captain · 7 Apr 2012 at 16:02

Mrs Seakitchen said:
*cackles manically* ok challenge accepted!!
Go and take a walk in the rain then find a pub that sells UBU drink said UBU and ! Then eat homeade pizza.

I had a pizza at 4am this morning topped with kebab meat and if i think of pizza now i just want to be sick

Mrs Seabiscuit · 7 Apr 2012 at 16:04

WELL you need to at least drink UBU then all will be well in the world.

how long were you together and how old are you?

wannabedamned · 7 Apr 2012 at 16:05

no matter how down you are, dont drop your standards. It will make you hate yourself more. Go out and get drunk by all means, But dont get so drunk you end up with a minger. Not talking from experience atall....

snowdog · 7 Apr 2012 at 16:13

Unfortunately in my experience only time fixes it, it took me a month to stop thinking about her every day, about 2 months to more or less completely forget it. ( well not that they always stay on your mind, but not in a way that bothers ya)

Later on you'll be laughing ''what the hell was I worried about?''

. So chin up, don't do any stupid things and move on.