Why does it hurt so much?

Skillmister said:
Imagine this. You are attracted to women, like you are now (emotionally and sexually), but they do not exist. They existed a long time ago, and no one knows what they looked like (They have a pretty good idea from the fossils, however), but they do not exist anymore. That means, not only do you know there will never be any possibility of you having sex with one, but there's not even a possibility of you ever seeing one in real life. Everyone else, however, except for a very few, are not attracted to women, they are attracted to something else entirely. So in other words, you will never find any porn anywhere on the internet, only non-sexual pictures of women. Everyone you have told about your attraction to women think it's disgusting. To relieve yourself, you get off on the non-sexual pictures of women, knowing it will never get any better.

That's what life is like to me.
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What is this I don't even
 
King Damager said:
Bleurgh, gonna fly now was the sound track to rocky....

kd
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Blasphemy!!!


Also to the op I have to agree with the majority of the others on this one... As it was broken down to me by a friend once

"Booze + Friends + pasty smashing = getting over a break up"
 
Skillmister said:
Imagine this. You are attracted to women, like you are now (emotionally and sexually), but they do not exist. They existed a long time ago, and no one knows what they looked like (They have a pretty good idea from the fossils, however), but they do not exist anymore. That means, not only do you know there will never be any possibility of you having sex with one, but there's not even a possibility of you ever seeing one in real life. Everyone else, however, except for a very few, are not attracted to women, they are attracted to something else entirely. So in other words, you will never find any porn anywhere on the internet, only non-sexual pictures of women. Everyone you have told about your attraction to women think it's disgusting. To relieve yourself, you get off on the non-sexual pictures of women, knowing it will never get any better.

That's what life is like to me.
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Quite possibly the most confusing, bizarre and disturbing post I've read for some time. I can't even begin to make sense of it, you want to have sex with something that no longer exists ?

Were drugs involved in this post ?
 
Time will heal, it just takes, well, time.
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This..is the only cure. Let it run its course. And by that I dont mean sit at home and suffer. Get busy do stuff, go out. But yea..in time you will be fine.

If it helps you any..my marriage of 5 yrs went up in smoke. Yea..I was a wreck. But guess what...Im still here...and you know what. Im happier now than Ive ever been.

Give it time. One thing I will say and this is important. Never ever let her see you sad. When youre out and about keep smilin ..even if you have to pretend. Nothing worse for her than to catch sight of you and wonder what the heck youre so happy about!
 
Monserrat said:
What's all this about sexual relations with more than 1 girl? (post #25 on pg1) You say you didn't cheat, so is this Islam or something?
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That was about this post

'You have only had sex once, which was with your ex on the day you split up'

and my reply meant that my ex wasnt my only sexual relation that ive had.
 
I was married for 16 years when my wife left me, I honestly never thought Id get over her, I cried every night for months, I eventually did get over her and met a girl who was far more compatible in every way and have a much better and healthier relationship as a result.

Id have given anything to have my ex back after we seperated but in the end it was the best thing that ever happened to me, these weird things happen but time does heal. Everyone told me at the time It would but I could never see it at the time, they were right just as I am, you will get over her.
 
It is almost midnight. If you shower, grab a taxi, pick up a mate within the next 10mins you can be at a bar before 12.15 or so i reckon...depending on where you live.
 
Metalface Mark said:
I was married for 16 years when my wife left me, I honestly never thought Id get over her, I cried every night for months, I eventually did get over her and met a girl who was far more compatible in every way and have a much better and healthier relationship as a result.

Id have given anything to have my ex back after we seperated but in the end it was the best thing that ever happened to me, these weird things happen but time does heal. Everyone told me at the time It would but I could never see it at the time, they were right just as I am, you will get over her.
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Glad you picked yourself up and moved on mate, and what a win that you found someone whose a match.

World works in strange ways....
 
OP, if you were to google something like, oh let's say :

The Breakup Megathread: Lushka16 severed, remains champ

It might be amazing what you find. Good luck :)
 
"Forget about it".

Love sucks when it goes wrong. Some people are effected differently. I personally, if I have been open, then it feels like the heart has stopped for a few seconds at a time.

You get over it.. but you'll never stop thinking about it.. in the same way you think about the great times you had doing something awesome with your mates sometime. It's a memory, you can't get rid of it. So... you need to learn to cope and importantly... GRIEVE about it.

Do that.. and you're home free. It will make you stronger. Just as one other person said... do NOT drop your standards.
 
LOL, my ex got with a guy the day before my dad died and i had to get it out of they guy and he didnt know who i was and she told him she was single, she even had the cheek to come on this forum and bad mouth me because she knew i frequent the forum. she got into a relationship with this guy few days later. safe to say man, these kind of women are not worth your trouble and you are better of knowing now and dealing with it and then letting it go. my ex can enjoy her rebound, i can honestly say i am myself and i feel better for it :) just chin up mate and get yourself on an even keel and focus on you, its self improvement week EVERY week
 
Skillmister said:
Imagine this. You are attracted to women, like you are now (emotionally and sexually), but they do not exist. They existed a long time ago, and no one knows what they looked like (They have a pretty good idea from the fossils, however), but they do not exist anymore. That means, not only do you know there will never be any possibility of you having sex with one, but there's not even a possibility of you ever seeing one in real life. Everyone else, however, except for a very few, are not attracted to women, they are attracted to something else entirely. So in other words, you will never find any porn anywhere on the internet, only non-sexual pictures of women. Everyone you have told about your attraction to women think it's disgusting. To relieve yourself, you get off on the non-sexual pictures of women, knowing it will never get any better.

That's what life is like to me.
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Is this post designed to test the stability of peoples minds on the internet because mine is in a feedback loop after reading that, I need an explanation for my sanity's sake.
 
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