Why is it all sucky? (Probably the longest OcUK post ever)
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Car is definatly repaired now, got through 50 miles of tarmac with no troubles 
However when I get home my friend tells me that he received a text from girl 2 asking to borrow something that she definatly knows he gave to me. He wants to know whats going on and why does he seem to be caught in the middle of some kind of hate war.
However when I get home my friend tells me that he received a text from girl 2 asking to borrow something that she definatly knows he gave to me. He wants to know whats going on and why does he seem to be caught in the middle of some kind of hate war.
Argh I decided that because I was seeing Girl 2 all the time I would attempt to clear the air with her and try and find out exactly what was wrong. However there is an update:
Thursday comes and girl 2 is being abnormally nice to me, I am obviously happy. She then asks me to send her my coursework so she can have a 'look' at it, so it appears to me that she is being nice because she wants my help.
Obviously I get a bit annoyed and am not too happy about talking to her, however later on she texts and asks for something else which I am not too fussed about and I send it to her because it will help her do her coursework on her own.
Anyway I don't hear from her until today when we are at uni again. She blanks me all day, she takes deliberate detours to avoid me and when we are going home she gets on the wrong train to get away from me. Its at this point I send her an angry message.
A couple of hours later I decide to try and find out what is wrong so I send something along the lines of:
'What is going on? Why do you keep ignoring me and treating me like dirt and then other times you are really nice and friendly, I just cant figure you out. It makes me think that you were only being nice to me because you wanted my help'
I then get a reply of
'Well I find you hard to understand too and I was being nice because you seemed down'
I asked what exactly she thought was hard to understand about me and I got told that she doesn't understand why I don't wait for her at the end of the day, why I was in a strange mood on thursday and why I send her messages like that 'amongst other little things'.
So I told her that I was in a funny mood because she keeps ignoring me and treating me badly and thats precisely the reason why I don't wait around for her all the time. She didn't respond to that. I showed one of my uni mates the messages and he went into a blinding fury because he knows she is lying about a lot of stuff.
Anyone else I would have gotten rid of a long time ago, but I see her about all the time and it just really hurts when she starts acting like an idiot, especially when we used to be friends. I suppose I just wanted to know why she was doing it but in the end have found absolutely nothing out.
On the plus side my dad phoned me up earlier and invited me skiing with him next week, so hopefully that will be something to look forward to. Maybe the break away from it all will do me good.
Thursday comes and girl 2 is being abnormally nice to me, I am obviously happy. She then asks me to send her my coursework so she can have a 'look' at it, so it appears to me that she is being nice because she wants my help.
Obviously I get a bit annoyed and am not too happy about talking to her, however later on she texts and asks for something else which I am not too fussed about and I send it to her because it will help her do her coursework on her own.
Anyway I don't hear from her until today when we are at uni again. She blanks me all day, she takes deliberate detours to avoid me and when we are going home she gets on the wrong train to get away from me. Its at this point I send her an angry message.
A couple of hours later I decide to try and find out what is wrong so I send something along the lines of:
'What is going on? Why do you keep ignoring me and treating me like dirt and then other times you are really nice and friendly, I just cant figure you out. It makes me think that you were only being nice to me because you wanted my help'
I then get a reply of
'Well I find you hard to understand too and I was being nice because you seemed down'
I asked what exactly she thought was hard to understand about me and I got told that she doesn't understand why I don't wait for her at the end of the day, why I was in a strange mood on thursday and why I send her messages like that 'amongst other little things'.
So I told her that I was in a funny mood because she keeps ignoring me and treating me badly and thats precisely the reason why I don't wait around for her all the time. She didn't respond to that. I showed one of my uni mates the messages and he went into a blinding fury because he knows she is lying about a lot of stuff.
Anyone else I would have gotten rid of a long time ago, but I see her about all the time and it just really hurts when she starts acting like an idiot, especially when we used to be friends. I suppose I just wanted to know why she was doing it but in the end have found absolutely nothing out.
On the plus side my dad phoned me up earlier and invited me skiing with him next week, so hopefully that will be something to look forward to. Maybe the break away from it all will do me good.
Maybe you and the girl should sit down and talk it out, it might be you're both acting oddly and neither really know where it stems from.
I do hope she wasn't being nice just to get your work though because that's just malicious.
The holiday should do you good
I know I sure as heck need one. I've never really ever had a holiday abroad
I do hope she wasn't being nice just to get your work though because that's just malicious.
The holiday should do you good
I know I sure as heck need one. I've never really ever had a holiday abroad
I would like to sit down with her and try and sort things out, because if shes telling the truth then we have definatly had our wires crossed for a while.
However, a couple of my mates that know her think she is just saying what she has said because she wants to continue mucking me about and trying to make me believe shes not doing it intentionally.
I dunno, I'll see what happens if I see her again.
However, a couple of my mates that know her think she is just saying what she has said because she wants to continue mucking me about and trying to make me believe shes not doing it intentionally.
I dunno, I'll see what happens if I see her again.
M0T said:
Cut her loose mate. Seriously, it won't stop until she's forced to sit up and listen. When you keep pining, and asking, and worrying, you'll eventually do both her head in and yours. Quit while it won't hurt so badly mate, you know she's not worth your time, but you lie to yourself to face the inevitable
Ant
Wow, holy hell batman!
Ski clothing is expensive.
£108 for a Jacket
£100 for Salopettes
£50 for Goggles.
I went to 4 different ski shops and thats the best I could get, its end of season, I am male and I am the most popular size.
Turns out we are driving to switzerland, 12 hours in the car. I am part driving a rover coupe (not mine), I'll be praying for no HGF.
In terms of girl 2 I don't know if I should get my hopes up or not. She was really nice to me today, came shopping with me to help me with the ski stuff and she was just really really nice to me. She also told me she would speak to me when I get back with a view to doing something.
Perhaps I managed to get through to her, I'd like to hope that perhaps we might have sorted ourselves out because she is just so great.
Ski clothing is expensive.
£108 for a Jacket
£100 for Salopettes
£50 for Goggles.
I went to 4 different ski shops and thats the best I could get, its end of season, I am male and I am the most popular size.
Turns out we are driving to switzerland, 12 hours in the car. I am part driving a rover coupe (not mine), I'll be praying for no HGF.
In terms of girl 2 I don't know if I should get my hopes up or not. She was really nice to me today, came shopping with me to help me with the ski stuff and she was just really really nice to me. She also told me she would speak to me when I get back with a view to doing something.
Perhaps I managed to get through to her, I'd like to hope that perhaps we might have sorted ourselves out because she is just so great.
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She sounds like she's a craver of attention, and likes the fact that you are in a quandry about her. Hopefully I'm wrong, and things might work out, but just don't wear your heart on your sleeve too much
Go skiing. Enjoy it completely. Try not to think about her too much.
Go skiing. Enjoy it completely. Try not to think about her too much.
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I don't care how much she is an attention whore as long as we end up together 
Seriously though, she seemed completely different today. It was a bit like she wasn't trying to play with me and she was just being herself again. I think we may have done ourselves good to get it out in the open.
Seriously though, she seemed completely different today. It was a bit like she wasn't trying to play with me and she was just being herself again. I think we may have done ourselves good to get it out in the open.
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Good luck. I hope you really have turned a corner.
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Kerpow!
Got back on saturday and had a great time, and luckily didn't manage to break anything
As for that girl, I decided that she had one last chance to act like a normal person and then she could sod off. All seemed to be going well, up until yesterday when she decided to start ignoring me again.
Her loss, it all seems much more trivial now a lot of my other problems have sorted themselves out.
As a side note its not the best plan to ski into a tree
Got back on saturday and had a great time, and luckily didn't manage to break anything
As for that girl, I decided that she had one last chance to act like a normal person and then she could sod off. All seemed to be going well, up until yesterday when she decided to start ignoring me again.
Her loss, it all seems much more trivial now a lot of my other problems have sorted themselves out.
As a side note its not the best plan to ski into a tree
M0T said:Kerpow!
Got back on saturday and had a great time, and luckily didn't manage to break anything
As for that girl, I decided that she had one last chance to act like a normal person and then she could sod off. All seemed to be going well, up until yesterday when she decided to start ignoring me again.
Her loss, it all seems much more trivial now a lot of my other problems have sorted themselves out.
As a side note its not the best plan to ski into a tree
Glad you had a good time time, like you said its her loss!
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Make sure you show her how much she's losing out on by not being with you.
Have a great time, enjoy yourself and just make sure she's around to see you happy
She'll come crawling back to you in no time... to which you can turn around and kick her in the teeth
Have a great time, enjoy yourself and just make sure she's around to see you happy
She'll come crawling back to you in no time... to which you can turn around and kick her in the teeth