Women and Eye contact

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Richdog said:
Just say hello to her man, if she turns out to be horrible with horrible friends then you've lost nothing and can stop thinking about her and move on to the next target. :D
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Good point :) Hmm, I'll think about giving it a go.

btw....sorry if I've hijacked the thread :o
 
If I want them to know I like them I will use eye contact, as its a good way to connect, and see if there is anything there. If I dont want them to knwo i like them I will avoid eye contact out of being shy.
And If im not interested Ill use eye contact but not too much! It wouldnt bother me if i didnt like them in that way!
 
shifty_uk said:
I could do that, but she might not say Hi back, and she might turn out to be a nasty person, with nasty friends that point and laugh at me everytime I walk past in future lol
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So you've wasted 0.5s and one syllable on her? Small price to pay to discover what she's like.

Or you may find your soulmate and live happily ever after :)
 
shifty_uk said:
I could do that, but she might not say Hi back, and she might turn out to be a nasty person, with nasty friends that point and laugh at me everytime I walk past in future lol
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Now that really would be the end of the world right. I'm sure there are many people already laughing about you behind your back, what's the problem if they do it in your face?

Personally, the potential gains in making the effort to say hello, outweigh the potential humiliation.
 
shifty_uk said:
I've got a similar problem. I see this girl often, and when I'm a distance away or if shes with her friends she will make good eye contact, i've seen her looking at me and I find myself looking back, I always notice her out of the crowd, but then when I walk past her when we're both on our own she see's me and then looses eye contact and wont look. I'm not sure what it is, I would love to think that she liked me and was shy but I havnt a clue. After what I've been through recently, I wouldnt mind meeting a new girl.
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btw...does anyone think that what i've said^^ might be signs that this person might be attracted, or have any feelings?

Just wondering.
 
I have been in situations where a girl and i have gazed into each others eyes for a moment or two, and i knew she really liked me..

Also ive caught girls looking at me and they instantly look away shy.. i know they like me as well :D
 
Hi, sorry for continuing this thread on longer, and I've kinda hijacked it, so sorry.

I'm just in need of a bit of advice, and didn't want to start a new thread.

This girl I keep seeing, well I don't see her as much as I used to, but I do see her occassionally, most of the time shes with her friends though, and I kinda want to make a move before its too late. So if shes with her friends...what do I do? Will I ask one of her friends? Will I bring her away from her friends? Will I ask infront of her friends?
Also....what do I say? If I just say Hi, then nothing might happen after that...even if she did say Hi back. I was thinking about perhaps saying something like "I was wondering if your single, i've seen you around and I like you" then say something like "can I give you my email address or phone number" something along the lines of that?

Sorry, might seem like dumb things to ask, but I've been with my ex for 2 years, and I just want to get my foot in the door, before I loose my chance.

Thanks in advance
Oh and sorry again about the thread :o
 
Just walk to her and say 'hi, noticed you were looking at me, would you like a drink?'

Do not ask/give her/your number straight away, talk to her a bit first otherwise you might look like a stalker.
 
Thanks dutch guy.
I get what your saying, but its pretty hard to just walk up to someone and have a conversation with them, especially someone you dont know.
 
shifty_uk said:
Thanks dutch guy.
I get what your saying, but its pretty hard to just walk up to someone and have a conversation with them, especially someone you dont know.
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If she looks away (with a smile on her face) you know she likes you and is prolly shy which is all the more reason to have a chat with her.

What you can also do is get a drink for yourself and listen in on what she is talking about with her friends and maybe use that to start a conversation with her.

That's why I said to ask her if she wants a drink, that way you know what to say and don't have to stand there saying nothing and you soon find out if she is interested in talking to you by the reaction she gives you, in the way she responds and in the way her face looks (smiling or disgusted etc...)
 
shifty_uk said:
I couldn't go over and stand next to her mates, and then butt in. I would definently be thought of as weird.
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In that case you have to be brave and go to her directly and go for it :cool:
 
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