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Im proper fuming with her now but the truth of the matter is ive never got on with anyone better in my entire life. Can chat for absolutely hours to her. But she is unreliable - says she will be places and then isnt - at least not until a few hours have passed. Its never been this bad before though; you'd think she'd make the effort for a holiday for christs sake.
 
ouch. if my girlfriend did that to me, there'd be a very stern interchange of words. a select few in fact. something along the lines of "maybe you should see other people"
 
Thats really annoying, sorry to hear about that. If I were you I'd be majorly ****** off!! If she wont talk to you just write her an email explaining how selfish she is being, and u cant just go disappearing etc etc

Defo a psycho hose beast though!
 
What the fizzle is wrong with her?
You done the right thing my man and my bet is she'll come around.
But why would she get so angry all of a sudden ?!?! She did say she would be at your place in an hour, doesn't turn up and argues at you :confused:

MC_Bob
 
Thanks guys at least you're making me feel like I did the right thing. Yeah mc_bob its completely baffling to me theres no logic to it what so ever. One things for certain though, I wont be getting on my flight from Gatwick in an hour and a half :(
 
If I'm going to be late due to being stuck in traffic etc on my way to Leeds to see Paul I stop and txt or phone to explain. I hate the thought of him panicking about me. What she did was thoroughly thoughtless. You did nothing at all wrong and simply acted like someone who cares.
 
just hope she will realise that and be able to look past the fact the police scared her mum which I think is the only thing she's clinging to. Of course I cant really tell since ive barely got 4 words of text out of her since the incident.
 
Roberta said:
If I'm going to be late due to being stuck in traffic etc on my way to Leeds to see Paul I stop and txt or phone to explain. I hate the thought of him panicking about me. What she did was thoroughly thoughtless. You did nothing at all wrong and simply acted like someone who cares.
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Ditto,

My advice would be go and get some sleep now you know whats going on, or after the flights taken off becuase I'd still worry :(
If she does turn up the last thing you want to be is slow and can't remember what you are going to argue about :)

MC_Bob
 
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just hope she will realise that and be able to look past the fact the police scared her mum which I think is the only thing she's clinging to. Of course I cant really tell since ive barely got 4 words of text out of her since the incident.
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Stop txting her. She's out of line. Plan a weekend out with friends and go and enjoy yourself and don't let her behaviour ruin it.
 
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The msn message...

(04:45) Maz:
Why have the police turned up at my mam's!
(04:50) Maz:
My mam has been woke up at 4am and she's now in hysterics n thinkin iv been murdered or summit


The text....
U sent the police to my mothers at 4am who thought id been muredered or something! Did you not think of the **** you have caused my whole family
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Does she not think of the **** she has caused me?
 
Dude you are not in the wrong, how can she not understand that you would worried? Anyway, how long are you two been together? Has she been ok? Because if a girl I was with just dissapeared and didn't tell me where she is at, I'd be getting paranoid about other stuff :o

I don't mean to worry you even more, just saying...
 
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Something fishy going on here if you ask me.
How long had you been with her and is she still in contact with her X.
I can't think of many reasons for her not turning up then switching her phone off. Sounds dodgey to me especially seeings you are supposed to be going on a holiday.
Sounds to me as if she is up to no good and was glad of the excuse to sack you.

Either way stick her in the trash can and when it asks whether you are sure you want to delete this 1 object hit the YES button.
 
Her ex is in middlesbrough and she absolutely hates him - I dont think thats it. Plus if she was why spend most of the day makin up stories about being on the motorway, seems a bit far fetched. But who knows its totally baffling it could be anything really
 
Get back in contact with the parents to be honest... You must have SOME contact details? She's still in an unknown place. Appologise to mam for getting her up at 4am. I'll bet any money the mother isnt angry at you at all, and may even offer advice/shed some light.
 
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