God bless.. I wish there was more I could say.. and at the risk of this thread turning into a 'Our Favourite Funeral Poems' thread, I'll post one as well. They really do best express out hearts when we're lost for words.
When the final battle is over,
and mortal flesh gives way,
The memories of who you were
are all you leave behind.
Words can not replace you,
nor thoughts ever quite reflect,
the feelings that you've left behind,
or the silence that will remain.
Sometimes we'll look, a turn of phrase
a glimpse of what was lost, remind.
But nothing will, in our hearts replace
that hole you used to fill.