Internet Dating.....Who Has Done it?!

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dlknight said:
If you do get a pic the likelihood of it being fake will be high ! Even girls in the UK post fake photos as I have found out myself in person on one occasion.
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Very true. It happens a lot. It also happened to me my friend :( Worse thing was, I still ended up doing the deed. It was'nt what I wanted at the time but I was young and stupid. It was going back when I was about 18. Internet dating sucks at times. Yet, I still do it :(
 
Toxic Babyface said:
Very true. It happens a lot. It also happened to me my friend :( Worse thing was, I still ended up doing the deed. It was'nt what I wanted at the time but I was young and stupid. It was going back when I was about 18. Internet dating sucks at times. Yet, I still do it :(
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The ones that post no picture can sometimes be a right good looking lass, as they do it so as not to end up with 100’s of emails from guys saying ‘wow you’re hot’ or ‘hey babe you’re so cute’ etc… Gets a bit tiresome for them really. Only the real ***** love that kind of attention.

If they email you without picture, it’s a good idea to email back and ask for a picture. If they respond with a picture and they’re a good looking average or better sized girl then go for it….

If they’re the size of a double decker bus then you either stop emailing if you really don’t fancy them, or politely stagger the emails off and stop contact. Its not nice to hurt any girls feelings by replying back with ‘urgh you munter’ but you’re not obliged to keep speaking to them and TBH the lack of contact once a picture has been received will tell them all they need to know.

No one likes rejection, I don’t but you have to deal with it. Anyhow, this could be a good looking lass…

Oh and yes we’ve all mostly been there and maybe slept with a girl that we weren’t all that attracted to. I think I’ve got my ‘bang a fatty’ stage of life out of me. Fat girls are actually a great time in bed, just not very nice to be seen in public with.. Ooh that statement could land me in trouble…. Lol some guys might like the ‘larger’ lady. And I’m talking size 16 + here, anything under a 16 to me is average etc…Curvy girls are great, good luck mate. She could be a stunner..!!
 
Oh and yes we’ve all mostly been there and maybe slept with a girl that we weren’t all that attracted to. I think I’ve got my ‘bang a fatty’ stage of life out of me. Fat girls are actually a great time in bed, just not very nice to be seen in public with.. Ooh that statement could land me in trouble…. Lol some guys might like the ‘larger’ lady. And I’m talking size 16 + here, anything under a 16 to me is average etc…Curvy girls are great, good luck mate. She could be a stunner..!!
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'Bang a fatty' stage lol. That cracked me up.
Yes, they are quite fun in bed. I feel bad for saying this but it's kind of true. Me ex turned into a bit of a porker in the end and she was dirty when it came to sexy time. I turned down a stunner I met on a dating site once. The reason was because I was still going out with my ex at the time and we were going through a real bad patch. I felt really bad for contacting the girl. She sent me saucy bikini photo's from when she was on holiday in southern France and she even called me every day as she promised. She had one hell of a body too as she was a fitness instructor. She also used web cam a lot on msn and she had a twin sister who used to sit there and chat with me aswell sometimes.
I could not believe it at first... why would such a nice girl be interested in me? Thing was, she had no confidence in herself at all and she even thought she was ugly.
If only I could go back in time... I turned her down only to have my heart ripped out and stamped on by my average looking ex who had ginger hair. (That was a year later by the way)

I fail at life so much it hurts.

Oh btw, thanks. I will need all the luck I can get lol.
 
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Damn, now i know why people use the phone before meeting!

I thought maybe i wasn't asking the right questions at first online but was like trying to get blood out of a stone even on the phone.
Do you do anything for fun, places you like to go? -
naaa not really might go to the cinema, haven't been in awhile though
What job do you do, that sounds fun bet you get to throw people out lol -
Naa it's rather quiet
Do you have a dream job, something you've always wanted to do? -
Not really...
Had a good day today, do anything nice? -
It's ok, didn't really do anything
Did you enjoy that show that was on ( told her the show )?
Na haven't seen it , i've seen blah blah but that's about it.

zzzzzzzzzzzzzz

Just trying to get the conversation going atleast, i did talk about some of the stuff i like to do but she wouldn't really ask more. Any other questions or just talking met with a few lines response. I'm finding this one very difficult to get a conversation out of.

I think this might be a problem being that she's a distance, can't hold a conversation and only 20 i'm 30.
 
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Neil79 said:
Damn, now i know why people use the phone before meeting!

I thought maybe i wasn't asking the right questions at first online but was like trying to get blood out of a stone even on the phone.
Do you do anything for fun, places you like to go? -
naaa not really might go to the cinema, haven't been in awhile though
What job do you do, that sounds fun bet you get to throw people out lol -
Naa it's rather quiet
Do you have a dream job, something you've always wanted to do? -
Not really...
Had a good day today, do anything nice? -
It's ok, didn't really do anything
Did you enjoy that show that was on ( told her the show )?
Na haven't seen it , i've seen blah blah but that's about it.

zzzzzzzzzzzzzz

Just trying to get the conversation going atleast, i did talk about some of the stuff i like to do but she wouldn't really ask more. Any other questions or just talking met with a few lines response. I'm finding this one very difficult to get a conversation out of.

I think this might be a problem being that she's a distance, can't hold a conversation and only 20 i'm 30.
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Yeah, forget that one man. She sounds terrible. There is better out there. I have yet to find someone that can hold a conversation aswell :(
 
Toxic Babyface said:
'Bang a fatty' stage lol. That cracked me up.
Yes, they are quite fun in bed. I feel bad for saying this but it's kind of true. Me ex turned into a bit of a porker in the end and she was dirty when it came to sexy time. I turned down a stunner I met on a dating site once. The reason was because I was still going out with my ex at the time and we were going through a real bad patch. I felt really bad for contacting the girl. She sent me saucy bikini photo's from when she was on holiday in southern France and she even called me every day as she promised. She had one hell of a body too as she was a fitness instructor. She also used web cam a lot on msn and she had a twin sister who used to sit there and chat with me aswell sometimes.
I could not believe it at first... why would such a nice girl be interested in me? Thing was, she had no confidence in herself at all and she even thought she was ugly.
If only I could go back in time... I turned her down only to have my heart ripped out and stamped on by my average looking ex who had ginger hair. (That was a year later by the way)

I fail at life so much it hurts.

Oh btw, thanks. I will need all the luck I can get lol.
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Remember this folks ....

"Large Girls and Vespas ...... Both Fun to ride until a friend see's you on one"
 
I had a fair few messages all with minimal thought gone into them. I'd left plenty of points in my profile for them to enquire about but you just get 'How are you?'. One lass was even looking for a man 'with a sense of humer'...

I also can't believe how expensive match.com seems to be!
 
Was chatting with a few last night, 1 near my age who actually held a decent conversation and another who was 24 who just replied with minimal effort. I asked her what she gets upto in her spare time.

Her reply was "swimming and gym" nothing else. Well sorry to say love but looking at your profile picture, you don't do that very often!
 
BennyC said:
I also can't believe how expensive match.com seems to be!
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Honestly, you're better off taking up a hobby where you get to meet new people so you have a common interest to start with. I've met lots of really nice, non-psychotic girls through one of my hobbies. :)

My cousin uses PoF to get a bit of milf action, nothing serious. I think if you're looking for someone really compatible for the long term, you've got a difficult task ahead, as many on those free sites probably aren't taking it that seriously.
 
omg why do they do it!!!

set themselfs up for major disappointment/rejection.

Girl messaged me, look nice in her photo, mid 20's wearing a sexy dress. Get talking to her, get on fairly well, she tells me the photo is a few years old would I like a more decent one.

So I say yeah, and low and behold. moooooooooose she musta gained 5 stone or the original photo is her sister or something. They should add a filter to plentyoffish, "no fat chicks!"
 
Spoke to that girl again last night, give it another chance.. Certainly seems to be a one way conversation, she chuckled a few times. But she said you're the first person i've really clicked with and likes me from my phone conversation.

However i'm having my doubts, i feel like i'm the one who's making it flow instead of both ways. It's still long distance and she doesn't drive, again i'd be making the effort and also she smokes. I don't like smoke it's an instant turn off, guess i got caught up in the moment. But is it so hard to meet someone local that doesn't smoke and give me a good conversation!. All my previous messages from girls have been from whales!, Average = NOT obese. Seriously, if you have the same amount of fat rolls on your body as you do your face you aint thin lol
 
I'm in a right pickle at the moment. I've been dating someone who's nice, pretty and has everything in the right place but I don't see it going the distance although I think she does.

Then just like busses another 2 come along. One is a Spanish exchange student, very pretty and seems really nice the other is a local(ish) girl who again is lovely but not sure what she wants relationship wise.

So, do I ditch the current one or try to bag all three in true OcUK style?

I do feel a bit bad about the current one though as I'm not that into her but it's been nice going out for dinner etc. Oh and she's filth too which does help a little.
 
Orange Peel said:
I'm in a right pickle at the moment. I've been dating someone who's nice, pretty and has everything in the right place but I don't see it going the distance although I think she does.

Then just like busses another 2 come along. One is a Spanish exchange student, very pretty and seems really nice the other is a local(ish) girl who again is lovely but not sure what she wants relationship wise.

So, do I ditch the current one or try to bag all three in true OcUK style?

I do feel a bit bad about the current one though as I'm not that into her but it's been nice going out for dinner etc. Oh and she's filth too which does help a little.
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Date all 3, choose the best.
 
Teknobry said:
Date all 3, choose the best.
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I'm having an issue with my moral compass at the moment. While I've dated quite a lot in the past I've never really dated more than one person at the same time.

Where does it become wrong to do this. After it gets physical etc.

I wish I could turn this flaw in my personality off and just smash all of them lol.
 
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