Can't believe I'm doing this...

There are definitely trust issues, I just thought we'd get through that in time. I didn't expect her to go that far, though. It took me a good few minutes to find the folder myself! I honestly don't keep that sort of stuff on my PC but I admit to watching the odd video now and then online when I'm on my own. And yeah, I personally don't see anything wrong with that but I really don't know how to explain that to her.

Good shout, Zefan. 22 this year. :eek:

(too many posts to keep up with, ty for the advice and funny posts, it's cheering me up a bit!)
 
Also, you could tell her that you've secretly been doing some extra fapping behind her back to make 'donations' as part of saving up for that diamond ring, and this was the material you were given to use.
 
Another one- turn the tables on her and say you found them on HER computer and you were waiting for the right moment to ask her about why SHE was looking at Asian porn. Stand your ground and confuse her into submission.

(Might be too late to start this one.)
 
Harsh but realistic advice : she's 22, has trust issues and feels offended/disgusted by you watching porn. Solution : get a new GF who will trust you and doesn't get worked up over perfectly normal male desires.

e : are either of you Asian? This is important.
 
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Open question for everyone: how would you feel/what would you do if somehow you found your other half had been looking at porn? (And not the cool kind).

If I'm honest I would be a bit hmmm.... but I don't think I'd be mad about it.
 
Doohickey said:
Open question for everyone: how would you feel/what would you do if somehow you found your other half had been looking at porn? (And not the cool kind).

If I'm honest I would be a bit hmmm.... but I don't think I'd be mad about it.
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as long as animals arent involved with it then i wouldnt really care
 
Some men are extremely visual in their sexual needs, if she is not around and you have a need, you need something visual to get you off, hardly rocket science and if she has a problem with it get rid of her.
 
Doohickey said:
Open question for everyone: how would you feel/what would you do if somehow you found your other half had been looking at porn? (And not the cool kind).

If I'm honest I would be a bit hmmm.... but I don't think I'd be mad about it.
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Requesting clarification on 'not the cool kind'.

e : ^ agree with hurfdurf ( :eek: )
 
I don't mean to sound harsh but this is her problem, her insecurities, not yours.

I really wish society would get over the stigma of perfectly natural sexual of desires, a partner viewing porn in their spare time rather than cheating seems like a civilised way of dealing with that need imo.
 
[FnG]magnolia;21467689 said:
Requesting clarification on 'not the cool kind'.
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Lol.

I see what I've done now. OP says his gf found pics of naked girls, so I wondered about our wives/girlfriends looking at male porn (i.e. just guys). I suppose this would be the least cool scenario...
 
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