Caught between two ladies...
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This is true.
3Kids! I would run a ******* mile from that trouble. My saddle bags would be on the Jennifer Lawrence look alike... yee haw giddy up
Trust me, I am leaning towards her more! Like seriously!
Now there's an idea. Lol.
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I lolled.
My name isn't exactly the easiest to say. I momentarily forgot that she works with a friend of mine from my previous job. So I imagine he has mentioned to me her in some capacity.
Sorry to disappoint you darling.
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You are torn between.
1.) The Hotty IT girl who is good looking, no baggage, has money.
or
2.) The so called "milf" with 3 kids in tow - probably a little dozy - because she crashed the car and didn't want to claim on the insurance - had to resort to online dating because she was a bit past it - and wanted to meet some stranger she just flirted via a keyboard with.
Just out of curiosity - if she's such a "milf" - how come she is single with 3 kids. Usually milfs know a bit about contraception (at least they do in the movies)
1.) The Hotty IT girl who is good looking, no baggage, has money.
or
2.) The so called "milf" with 3 kids in tow - probably a little dozy - because she crashed the car and didn't want to claim on the insurance - had to resort to online dating because she was a bit past it - and wanted to meet some stranger she just flirted via a keyboard with.
Just out of curiosity - if she's such a "milf" - how come she is single with 3 kids. Usually milfs know a bit about contraception (at least they do in the movies)
You're right. That's exactly what it sounds like. I guess it's cos the last time I was in this situation, I actually took myself out of the equation and told both lasses at the time I couldn't see either of them.
I feel like you've answered your own question here really. You like the JL lookalike more, she's more suitable for you (age wise and without kids), you work at the same place (good for seeing each other) but not at the same area (bad for seeing each other too much). All you're after is a way to tell the older woman you're no longer interested, which as you've never met is as easy as saying "Sorry, nothing to do with you but something (or someone if you want to be more honest) has come up, wish you all the best".
Your only issue is that if you do ever stick it out with either woman, you best get this thread deleted
Your only issue is that if you do ever stick it out with either woman, you best get this thread deleted
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I hate to be a cynic, but am I the only one imagining two munters? I've seen delusional men describe their girlfriends as 'like that girl out James Bond' when what they actually meant was 'that bloke out of Red Dwarf'.
In short: we need pics.
In short: we need pics.
I feel like you've answered your own question here really. You like the JL lookalike more, she's more suitable for you (age wise and without kids), you work at the same place (good for seeing each other) but not at the same area (bad for seeing each other too much). All you're after is a way to tell the older woman you're no longer interested, which as you've never met is as easy as saying "Sorry, nothing to do with you but something (or someone if you want to be more honest) has come up, wish you all the best".
Your only issue is that if you do ever stick it out with either woman, you best get this thread deleted
You couldn't have put it any simpler! Lol. Especially that last comment! Haha. The lass at work is on a different floor to me. She isn't in IT. So we don't actually see each other at work. Hence why I actually forgot about her until I dealt with her problem.
Sorry sunshine. Not happening. You'll just have to take my word for it. If anyone here is the munter, it's me. Trust me.
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IT guy in improbable double girl-interest unusualness.
Propose to both of them on the first date. Have sex with the one who declines and never again contact the one who accepts.
Propose to both of them on the first date. Have sex with the one who declines and never again contact the one who accepts.
Red flag.
Dating is one thing but taking it further with her while she is still living with her ex sounds like a whole load of trouble and general awkwardness. Once she's moved out things will obviously be different but you might find that when she's away from her ex, and her situation has calmed down and changed for the better, she may feel that she just wants some time to herself. Meeting you might just be a temporary welcome distraction from the current ex situation.
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You know what, I'm going to trust you on that! So in that case, plough them both before they get themselves to Spec Savers!
I'm happy for you!
Well done you. Nothing better than being more true to yourself. Thanks for the offer, but no.
Again, this is probably the case. Either way, I would want to take the plunge and see what happens. If all she is doing is looking for a way out to eventually want time to herself, then that's fine. I am a flexible chap and can go with the flow. I've been single for 3 years so it's not like I've really missed much. It's life. I think I will just enjoy it while I can.