I don't remember anything being contentious apart from the taking a knee and hat was the players choice not Southgate's all he did was take the pathetic media flack for it. I don't really remember him lecturing anyone either just answering questions put to him or making statements to protect the players but then I guess everyone hears things differently. Personally I'd much rather someone in such a high profile role use it to address relevant high profile issues rather than hand wave things away with 'I'm just focussed on football' platitudes, everyone with a platform has a responsibility to use it for good.