The articles don't lie..
"Badly fitting coolers, too low performance with actually good waterblocks and bent CPUs – meanwhile not only the feedback of the readers is piling up, but also very similar reports from the board partners, cooler manufacturers and system integrators. Based on my own experiences, I went in search of clues and first tried to sort out emotionlessly what error patterns occurred. Finding a cause here is certainly not easy, as the phenomena are quite complex, but certainly not impossible either."
Cooling issues with Intel’s Alder Lake - Problems with the LGA-1700 socket and a possible workaround | igor'sLAB (igorslab.de)
You tried this on the other day. It's not a common issue and is an article from way back in December. Another article from igors also shows lower power usage on the Intel chips but you wouldn't like to link that would you as you only look at listed TDP.
The stuff about more expensive power supplies, coolers and noise dampening cases is the outright nonsense. Nobody but you seems to have an issue with the OP choosing between say a 5900x or 12700k. It's like as soon as Intel is even suggested you're instantly triggered. It must be unbearable.