I don't hate Tottenham - I just think the blinkered view of Tottenham fans is hilarious.
You don't have to, in any given moment... but you will sell Modric, and probably will sell Bale. You best players leave, it's just what happens.
A tight ship, that's leaking

. So you want to mimic Arsenal, and what they did with the Emirates? Doesn't that rely on you qualifying for the Champions League, every year? Not going to happen

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Champions league has nothing to do with the Emirates?
We take 50mil more in gate reciepts than we used to, that is the ONLY reason we got the new stadium and its the ONLY thing paying for the new stadium.
For ANY club, a new stadium makes sense if increase capacity + gate receipts will pay off the stadium easily and have long term increased income. This is the case with or without the champs league, which is only what 4 home games for Arsenal most seasons vs the other 19 league game, normally 5-6 cup games, preseason, internationals. It's not like champs league ticket receipts alone are paying for the stadium, welcome, sure, but we'd get similar ticket income from Europa league also.
Spurs, Fulham, Everton, Liverpool, Chelsea(massively so), City, Utd, Arsenal could all make more money with increased capacity(and most of the other teams as well, except Wigan

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AS for selling their best players, Cesc, Vieira, Henry, Overmars, Petit, Ronaldo(fat and thin), Figo, Zidane, Eto'o, Zlatan.
All clubs, excluding NONE, sell their best players, because players move on, for money, location, cups, scandals, stupidity, whatever. Spurs WILL sell their best players, as will every club in every league in every continent, that is how football works.
Clubs that sell their most over valued assets, and buy undervalued ones, do better than clubs that do the opposite, both financially and usually on the pitch..... cough, Newcastle. If they got anything over 30mil for Bale, they'd be getting 15mil more than he's worth, same goes for Modric. Laughing at Spurs for making good business decisions is.... odd. Selling Henry for 15, when we had 30mil offers the year before, not so good, selling Nasri for 25mil when he's worth 10mil at best, great, selling Clichy for 7mil, poor, paying Diaby anything over 3pence a season.... horrifically stupid.