Discussing this is pointless,several questions:
1) how to define "stable'? In my opinion, the definition of stability is rather subjective. Did your brother run all three Prime 95 tests for 12+ hrs? Did he use the latest version of P95 with AVX?
2) I don't any source for that, it's just my own theory based on the statistics from Raja. He is ASUS engineer and did some binning work of 4960x personally.
Also based on some info. I gathered from overclock.net. I don't deny your brother is lucky enough to grab a golden chip. I just thought statistics is more convincing because these statistics are based on tremendous number of samples.
you need to be aware that CPU OC only, RAM OC only, and OC CPU and RAM at the same are 3 different scenarios. Required Vcore is therefore quite different. My point is it's unfair and pointless to just simply compare the volts with others posted online. Maybe your brother is right, but his theory is only based on very limited number of samples. It's all about probability.
Just curious, how did your brother deal with these 4930k that not clock very well? return them to OCUK?