Bartender at Wetherspoons

Write number on tip and see if she calls, if not then well there's other places to save awkwardness :D

This thread reminds me of another poster....


Have you seen her interact with others? Staff/customers is she just as friendly with them?
 
anything I don't mind said:
I don't think you can tip like that at whetherspoon as you pay when you order at the bar. I was thinking of just asking her out for coffee, but that seems like stupid thing to say.
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The fact you've started a thread indicates you're already overthinking it.

Just ask her what she gets up to outside of work, if she happily chats about it find something in common and use that as a date idea. If she avoids it then she doesn't want you stalking her outside of work too :D
 
Skidder said:
If you hold opinions so repellent that they should not be discussed in public, perhaps it would be best to revise them.
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It is not that they are "repellent" is just that most people don't like talking about politics or such issues all the time. I will only discuss my opinions about such subjects if the topic comes up in discussion and people want to hear my opinion about it. Otherwise i risk coming across as some over zealous dogmatic loud mouth who no one would want to be around.

It just so happens that this forum often discusses such topics and i am quite opinionated otherwise if you met me you would never know that i am anti feminist anarcho capitalist etc.
 
From personal experience, you should get really drunk,
Tell her how attractive she is,
Get a friend to come with you to back her up on how attractive she is,
get thrown out for "harassing staff",
Proceed to next drinking hole and find new bartender attractive.
 
Why would you lower your self to bar staff. Have some self respect. Italian means she is another serb/croat with a fake passport.

im joking btw shes probably really nice.
 
anything I don't mind said:
I have been thinking about asking one of the bartender out at Whetherspoons, i go in there for lunch and i am not sure but she seems that she might be interested. I asked her where she was from and did some small talk. I am not sure if i should ask her out for coffee, should i ask her if she likes coffee first as apart of a conversation? I've been reading up on a lot people say never ask bartender out as they never give out numbers because they get asked all the time. When i go in its usually quiet and i try make small talk. I still don't know her name so that's probably next question to ask, she is from italy but speaks great english and seems realy pleasant.
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No excuses, all you are going to do sitting and debating it is come up with a million reasons not to ask her "what If I look creepy, what if she gets asked this all the time, what if she says no"

Irrelevant. Ask her anyway. She says no who cares life goes on.
 
On said 1st date, give her a lemon and tell her she'll need it to take the smile off her face in the morning!!!!

Boom girls love a man with confidence
 
The worst that can happen is she says no so just go for it but bear in mind that bar staff are friendly to everyone, it's their job and chances are she's not even remotely interested.
 
GiraffePencils said:
From personal experience, you should get really drunk,
Tell her how attractive she is,
Get a friend to come with you to back her up on how attractive she is,
get thrown out for "harassing staff",
Proceed to next drinking hole and find new bartender attractive.
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I would add to this that at some point you probably should cry and tell her that you love her.
 
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