Bartender at Wetherspoons

anything I don't mind said:
I always struggle in the way to frame the discussion with giving my number out like that



I would never discuss those opinions in public especially not with a girl i am trying to speak to. oh and i don't have opinions on other races wtf ?
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Then why discuss them on a public forum? If you don't have that much conviction in your opinions perhaps you should rethink what you say on here?

Just a thought.
 
Also start the conversation by asking her why she's not back in Italy serving beer so that an English girl can have her job back?
 
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What would that guy do??
 
Strike up a conversation about the Wetherspoon's meal deals (curry night, steak night etc.) and then casually invite her to join you for pasty smashing night at your place. Guaranteed win every time.
 
freefaller, see my other response above.

Its more about what to say or what angle to take to be successful. I don't lack confidence in general, i am just rubbish at putting those sorts of conversations together. Some people are realy natural about it and i just not. Otherwise i am quite confident its messed up. I guess ill have to just try and make small talk and that casually just ask her out for coffee some time and see what she says. Ill try next time i go in there.
 
Ask her if she wants to go for a drink.
If she says yes, move to the other end of the bar and order. No point in making it complicated.
 
Mat said:
Ask her if she wants to go for a drink.
If she says yes, move to the other end of the bar and order. No point in making it complicated.
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Sound plan right here. ;):D:D

Just ask her if she'd be interested in going for <insert idea that suits here> sometime and give her your number.

Worst case scenario is her brother gets it and breaks one of your legs she says no.
 
Some might consider it a little risky, a bit rapey even but have you considered simply just getting it out and showing her it?
 
I've never asked someone for their number ever... however the other day for the first time ever I did... I took my mum out for her birthday I saw this woman who caught my eye... We started talking, I asked for her number and we've got a date this weekend.
 
anything I don't mind said:
freefaller, see my other response above.

Its more about what to say or what angle to take to be successful. I don't lack confidence in general, i am just rubbish at putting those sorts of conversations together. Some people are realy natural about it and i just not. Otherwise i am quite confident its messed up. I guess ill have to just try and make small talk and that casually just ask her out for coffee some time and see what she says. Ill try next time i go in there.
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So basically you're shy, and/or socially and you get confidence from sitting behind a keyboard giving you opinions ;)

Just go up to her, and ask her if she'd like to go for a drink with you. It really is that easy. If you have the opportunity you can have a bit of a chat with her to build up to it - it'll help you work out whether or not she may be interested.
 
Write "Will you go out with me?" on a fiver and hand it to her the next time that you pay?

No matter how you do it, asking someone out while they're working is going to be creepy.
 
cHk4 said:
I've never asked someone for their number ever... however the other day for the first time ever I did... I took my mum out for her birthday I saw this woman who caught my eye... We started talking, I asked for her number and we've got a date this weekend.
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You'll have to take your Mum out as your wingman more often
 
cHk4 said:
I've never asked someone for their number ever... however the other day for the first time ever I did... I took my mum out for her birthday I saw this woman who caught my eye... We started talking, I asked for her number and we've got a date this weekend.
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I am surprised you didn't already know your own mother's number
 
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