its a very different gaming experience to many of the mmorpgs that are released every month or so.
I cannot stress this enough.
there is no hand holding in this game. you are not told where to go, or how to get there, and the reason being, is that you do not NEED to do anything, or go anywhere specific. This game allows you so much freedom to do as you please, which is why a lot of ppl are put off.
Ppl like to be given a linear path to achieve success in a game. However, here it is not so. Yes there is grinding, the simple mindless kill kill kill method. And lots of ppl get burnt out on that. However, using a little thought, can help you achieve the same things through other methods, like trading, farming, crafting, fishing etc etc
but those methods require a little more thought, and ppl are not always prepared to think...
I love the game, and its constantly populated servers is testimony to its success. lots of ppl will stop after a week or so, and go back to waiting for another wow clone. if that's what you're after, then this is NOT the game for you.
but if you want a game which allows YOU to dictate your journey, then give it a shot.