At least you guys can get into a game. Most games I try to get into just timeout. When I did finally manage to get a game with the quests I was on it had a level 50 running around doing them for his buddies. I'd like to be able to see who is in the game before I join, but I'd settle for just joining a game at the moment. Unfortunately hosting is out of the question until my ISP opens some ports for me
why do you need your isp to open ports?