Man of Honour
Better put than I did earlier in the thread.
Why are people so quick now to assign kids/children as transgender when they don't 'conform' to gender norms?
On the one hand they argue that there is no real difference between the sexes, that gender is a social construct, no line in the sand when it comes to differences in gender, that gender specific items should no longer exist.
But as soon as a child does something that is against the grain it's OMGTRANSGENDERCHILD!
Why can't it be a child who is just playing?
If you have to assign a gender to the child why can't it just be a boy who likes playing with dolls, or a girl who likes action man? Both of which are fine.
Why do they have to be suddenly 'born in the wrong body'.
Oh I know. Fashionable.
I think it's more deliberate than fashion. Or, perhaps more accurately a side-effect of something more deliberate.
There has been and continues to be a devout movement for group identity politics, especially biological group identity politics. Feminism is the core of that and the most successful strain of biological group politics, but it's not the only one and allies with others. Biological group advocacy obviously requires belief in biological group identity, so the inevitable result of any success in biological group advocacy is an increase in biological group identity.
Part of belief in biological group identity is assigning traits in behaviour, speech and actions to the group identity. When the group identity is sex, this strengthens sexed stereotypes and thus strengthens the idea that gender and sex are synonymous. It's not enough for something to be seen as feminine - it must be seen as female. It's not enough for something to be seen as masculine - it must be seen as male. We're already at the stage where a non-trivial amount of people believe that sex and gender are the same thing and this message has been deliberately and strongly promoted.
So whereas you and I and some other people see a male/female person (sex) doing something feminine/masculine (gender), believers in biological group identity see a male/female person doing something female/male and many think that means the person is really the other sex. They're so devout in their belief in sexed stereotypes that they really believe that a person doing something feminine must be female and a person doing something masculine must be male. They have no tolerance for non-comformity, which is par for the course for believers in biological group identity.