Labels, labels, labels. I hate the American approach that instead of trying to dismantle labels instead decides to enshrine them and make everything right with the world by saying how great all the labels are. The European approach to racism was to try and stop people seeing Black and White as significant - to reduce it to the level of someone being blonde or brunette. The American approach - because of their history with slavery and because American Black people were searching around for a cultural status, became one of trumpeting at every opportunity how great it was to be Black. Or homosexual. Or Trans. Or female. Or disabled. Instead of saying "maybe we should stop judging people by some label," the American majority - who are primarily driven by a massive cultural guilt complex - found themselves unable to drop something as meaningless, but had to 'make amends' by doubling-down on those labels and championing them. The natural process of stupid distinctions being eroded away is actively fought against. I myself have been verbally attacked on multiple occasions for saying that race or sex don't matter. My position is the best possible end goal for race and sexual equality. And it is despised by some of the very people who see themselves as champions of those causes.
If you mean that, why do you define and describe and label yourself as a feminist, i.e. an advocate of one sex? That obviously requires believing that everyone is defined by their sex - you can't advocate for one sex without viewing humanity as being defined into two groups - the "right" sex and not the "right" sex. That is very much the enshrining and doubling down on labels and championing the "right" label(s) that you have just eloquently opposed.
I've been verbally attacked on multiple occasions for saying that sex is irrelevant in almost all circumstances and that race isn't even a real thing. By feminists, mainly. Sometimes by masculists/MRAs/whatever, which isn't surprising since they are the same as feminists/WRAs/whatever. Sometimes by racists, but they're usually feminists first and foremost.
Anyone who ever refers to me as an "alternative male" is going to get a very black look indeed! (Or perhaps that should be chalk-look at the university of Cardiff?
). I hate such language-mangling because - aside from fouling a language which I love dearly - implies there's something
wrong with being a woman that you have to somehow disguise. I don't need euphemisms for being a woman. I'm not ashamed of it.
Referring to men as "failed women" would be more likely, given which ideology is dominant. We're already at the stage where "everyone knows" (i.e. it's commonly believed to be true even though it isn't) that all humans are initially female and male people (or "males" as they're increasingly referred to in order to avoid calling them people) are a later side-road. Not far to go from that to male=failed to be female.
The masculine version, through common usage, is "house-husband". I knew someone who self-described as that and both he and I were comfortable with the term. It was slightly amusing but didn't feel derogatory.
In common usage, yes, but the etymology doesn't match up and that niggles at me. It should be "housewere". Also, "househusband" should be considered an ungendered term because in terms of language it is ungendered. Ahah! So
that's what could replace "housewife"! "Househusband" for everyone who looks after a house, since that's what the word means.
Disabled doesn't refer to someone's function as a human being. It refers to the disablement of some capability - the ability to walk or see or hear.
When it's used to refer to a person, it refers to a person. When it's used to refer to some capability, it refers to some capability. It's almost always used to refer to a person.
I acknowledge that using the word incorrectly is common and thus from a strictly descriptive point of view the incorrect usage is now the correct usage. But it grates on me that the most insulting way to refer to a person is the one that is expected and required.
"handicapped" was a much better word, since it means "carrying an extra weight". Originally literally, but the meaning expanded to cover anything that would be any kind of hindrance.
But really, it's up to people with disabilities what they want used so I'm just going to leave that one there for the people in the thread who have a right to say what should be used as I don't. I'm just following what seems to be the state of things to me.
If a person specifies a term for themself, I'll go along with it. If they specify a term for millions of people because they want the same label applied to them, I won't. Either way, I'll retain my own opinion and continue to think I have a right to one.
Which is why I, as a feminist, don't freak out about words like "humanity" having the syllable 'man' it it rather than insisting it be "humanorwomanity". Words have history and origins that don't always match up with modern understanding. If you start cutting words apart based on flawed understanding, you're going to butcher the language horribly for no gain. Fight the battles that matter - like how women in many Islamic countries don't get to go to school or have a career - not declare a War on Syllables.
In addition to that, it's a parading of ignorance. The 'man' syllable in 'humanity' has no known relationship to the word 'man'. It's highly plausible that there was a link in prehistory, but of course that can't be tested. It might be complete coincidence. There are a limited number of convenient syllables. 'human' comes from Latin, 'man' from German and they both predate any known contact between the two languages. They both had the same meaning ("person") so a prehistoric connection does seem likely.
As a feminist, you should be advocating for female people only in everything, including language. Perhaps especially language, since language shapes thought and thought shapes everything else.
That's very interesting to me. Can you give me an example of that? I'd like to learn more.
'wergild' is what comes to my mind immediately. It was a fine imposed for wrongdoing against a male person, first established in the Anglo-Saxon period in an attempt to reduce the amount of blood feuding. It was specifically about male people. The fines for wrongdoing against a female person were different (and smaller - sexism was rather common at the time).